Shameless Sex

Are you tired of chasing the elusive "great" sex? Let’s bust some myths and redefine what pleasure really means! Join Shameless Sex podcast hosts Amy and April as they dive into the myths and realities about what truly makes sex "great." This fun, no-holds-barred discussion will explore misconceptions surrounding sex and satisfaction. What You’ll Learn: Simultaneous Orgasms: Are they really the ultimate goal? Spoiler: they’re rarer than you think. Sex Toys: Enhancing pleasure or a threat to intimacy? Discover how they can spice things up! Desensitization Dilemma: Do vibrators really numb your sensitivity? Let’s clear the air on this common fear. Duration Expectations: How long should sex last? You might be surprised by what the experts and the statistics say. The "Pillow Princess" Debate: Is it okay to enjoy receiving pleasure without giving? We break down the stereotypes. Join the Shameless Sex hosts as they unveil eye-opening research and compelling stats that debunk common sexual misconceptions. Wi

Get ready to dive into the cheeky side of health with Dr. Evan Goldstein, the leading anal health expert in the U.S. In this episode, we’re exploring all things butt-related in a fun and relatable way, thanks to Dr. Goldstein’s brilliant book, *Butt Seriously: The Definitive Guide to Anal Health, Pleasure, and Everything In Between.” What to Expect Humor Meets Health: Why did Dr. Goldstein sprinkle his book with puns? Was it all part of the plan, or just a cheeky bonus? Expert Insights: What does it truly mean to be the top anal health guru in America? Burning Questions: What are the most common questions about anal play and what should everyone know about the backdoor?   Myth-Busting: We’ll tackle the biggest misconceptions surrounding anal health and pleasure (even Amy got new backdoor knowledge!). Tips for Bliss: Want to enhance your intimate experiences? Dr. Goldstein shares his top strategies for achieving ultimate sexual bliss through anal play. Health Essentials: Discover the key pieces of knowl

Welcome to a playful dive into the world of nonmonogamy with sexologist and content creator, Alexa Andre! Whether you’re curious about exploring new relationship dynamics or just want to understand what nonmonogamy is all about, this episode is your go-to guide for all things love and connection. What to Expect: Alexa’s Journey: Discover how Alexa became a trusted voice in sexuality and relationships. Defining Nonmonogamy: What does it really mean, and who is it for? Benefits & Challenges: Uncover the perks of nonmonogamous living and the hurdles to watch out for. Top Tips for Newbies: Alexa shares her must-do's and don'ts for those just starting out. Managing Jealousy: Can it be learned? Tune in to find out! Rapid Fire Fun: Get ready for some cheeky questions that spark laughter and insight! Why Tune In? This episode is perfect for anyone looking to broaden their understanding of relationships beyond traditional boundaries. With Alexa’s warm and inclusive approach, you’ll feel empowered to ask quest

Join us for an eye-opening and entertaining episode featuring the fabulous Dr. Fenwa Milhouse, a board-certified urologist and co-founder of Down There Urology! Specializing in Female Pelvic Medicine and Reconstructive Surgery, Dr. Milhouse is here to break down the walls of taboo surrounding genital health and sexuality. In this episode, you’ll discover: How Dr. Milhouse's journey led her to become a top urologist in Chicago The nitty-gritty of what urology really involves (hint: it's more fascinating than you think!) Eye-popping stories from her practice that will leave you both amused and informed When it's time to seek help from a urology specialist (don't wait until it's too late!) The truth about orgasms and aging—what's happening and what can you do? Insight into whether vibrators and sex toys play a role in her practice (and which ones she recommends!) A simple breakdown of hormone replacement therapy: who it’s for and when to consider it Options for those on a budget—because everyone deserve

Join us for an electrifying episode of Shameless Sex as we dive deep into the world of love, relationships, and all the juicy bits in between! In this lively chat, we sit down with Jamilah Mapp, a passionate author, sexologist, and tantric practitioner, alongside the charismatic Divine Masculine Orlando Roye, a sex-positive wellness advocate. Wondering how they got to where they are today? We’ll share the story of when we first met them—sparks flew, and the attraction was undeniable! Get ready for some real talk about blending families and the challenges of meeting new partners’ kids. What worked? What didn’t? And what would they do differently next time? Together, we’ll tackle the tough questions: Why are so many modern relationships struggling? Can long-term monogamy and parenthood coexist with sizzling hot sex? What tools keep the fire alive in a relationship? How do you handle feeling sexually mismatched with your partner? What role does Tantra play in their love journey? Plus, we’ll play a rapi

Get ready to celebrate a year of sexy, insightful chats with our Year-End Mashup episode! We’re diving back into the archives to bring you the most memorable moments from our top five episodes of 2024, and trust us—you won’t want to miss this juicy recap! In this episode, we’re serving up highlights from: #363 - Fingering with Darshana Avila: Discover the art of fingering and why it’s not just about the destination. #367 - Sexual Confidence with Dr. Tara: Learn how to strut your stuff in and out of the bedroom—confidence is key! #386 - MUNCH: Everything You Need to Know About Eating Pussy with Tyomi: Get the lowdown on going down from sexpert   #361 - Domination with King Daddy Jeff: Explore the thrilling world of domination and why it’s all about trust and communication. #364 - Come Together with Emily Nagoski, PhD: Unpack the science behind connection and intimacy—because we all want that deep bond! Join us as we reflect on a year full of pleasure, laughter, and growth. Whether you’re a longtime

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In this episode of Shameless Sex, we’re joined by the fabulous Dr. Kanwal Bawa, also known as the Dr. Sex Fairy! A pioneer in skin rejuvenation, hair restoration, and sexual wellness, Dr. Bawa has been featured in top media outlets like Insider, Glamour, CBS, and ABC. As the host of the Dr. Sex Fairy podcast and a trusted expert, she’s here to help you unlock the secrets to Big Dick Energy—and no, you don’t need a big D to possess it! Join us as we dive deep into: What is Big Dick Energy? Discover its true meaning and whether size really matters. Can anyone (even women) have Big Dick Energy? Explore how it manifests and why it’s not just a dude trait. The misconceptions: What is NOT Big Dick Energy, even if it looks like confidence? Erectile and ejaculatory control: Do these factors play a role in exuding Big Dick Energy? Boosting your energy: Practical tips on how to cultivate more Big Dick Energy if you’re feeling low. The Bawa Big penis enlargement procedure: Does enhancing size automatically b

Ready to turn your wildest dreams into reality? Buckle up, Shameless listeners, because we're diving deep into the world of manifestation with our guest Nikole Mitchell – a former pastor turned stripper who's now a multi-7 figure business owner! Nikole went viral when she left her religious community for the adult industry. She went from food stamps to 7 figures as a result of being the truest version of herself and being willing to be misunderstood for the sake of following her pleasure. She’s never been happier, healthier, or wealthier.  In this mind-blowing episode, Nikole shares her jaw-dropping journey from the pulpit to the pole, and how she manifested her way to success and the best sex of her life. You'll learn how to break free from societal norms, embrace your true desires, and manifest both wealth and mind-blowing orgasms (yes, you read that right!). Nikole drops some serious knowledge bombs on: Why good people should become wealthy (and how to do it) The surprising connection between sexual plea

Unlock the Power of Your Emotional Brain with ​​Dr. Nan Wise – certified sex therapist, relationship specialist, neuroscience researcher, and author of Why Good Sex Matters: Understanding the Neuroscience of Pleasure for a Smarter, Happier, and More Purpose-Filled Life. Get ready for a mind-blowing journey into the depths of your psyche as you listen to April get a real-time therapy session with Dr. Nan. In this episode, you'll discover: The fascinating role of brain systems in regulating your emotions and behaviors Eye-opening insights from April's affective neuroscience personality scale Find your results and take the test by clicking this link: https://affective-neuroscience-personality-scales.jimdosite.com/take-the-test April’s current real-life challenges and struggles that you will probably relate to A guided mindfulness session to help you stay present and focused The surprising link between pleasure and a well-functioning emotional brain Dr. Nan, with her expertise in neuroscience and therapy,

Get ready for a raw and revealing episode of Shameless Sex recorded LIVE at our retreat amidst the lush beauty of Costa Rica. Join our brave retreat attendees as they strip away their inhibitions and dive deep into transformative conversations about relationships, sexual wellness, and personal growth.  Our guests bare their souls through this powerful group discussion. You'll hear firsthand accounts of: Relationship breakthroughs and some yummy strategies to keep that fire burning  Stories with unique experiences and new ways to use sex toys (thank you Magic Wand!)  Personal revelations that inspire profound change Overcoming intimacy barriers Embracing authentic sexual expression Cultivating deeper self-love and acceptance Whether you're single, coupled, or exploring alternative relationship styles, this episode offers valuable insights for your own journey of sexual wellness and personal development. Ready to transform your relationships and unleash your inner sexy beast? Listen now and discover how

What is ADHD, and how would someone know if they have it? How does ADHD show up in sex and relationships? What are the common struggles, challenges, and superpowers? What about kink and ADHD? Why is setting up an ideal environment so important for sexual and relational success? How can people with ADHD become more sexually empowered? And why is there very little research on ADHD and sex? About our guest: Leann Borneman is a sexologist and certified sex therapist who specializes in the intersection of ADHD and sexuality. As an individual with ADHD, Leann brings a personal understanding to the challenges that can arise in intimate settings. Her approach emphasizes the importance of reshaping our environments rather than trying to change ourselves. Leann is dedicated to creating successful frameworks for our environments, relationships, and sexual experiences. To learn more go to http://bornemancoaching.com Instagram Tik Tok Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com t

Ready to explore the wonderful world of prostate health and pleasure? Shameless Sex welcomes back prostate expert Forrest Andrews for his fifth appearance, diving deep into the mysteries of the p-spot! Curious about what makes the prostate so special? Where is this magical gland, and why is everyone buzzing about it?  In this episode, we'll uncover: The latest research on men's sexual health and prostate wellness Why choose an Aneros over fingers for p-spot stimulation? Step-by-step guide to using Aneros toys for mind-blowing experiences The lowdown on the new PSY product (and the story behind its intriguing name!) Forrest Andrews, the Product and Business Development manager of Aneros, brings his wealth of expertise to our show. As the brains behind the award-winning Trident Series, Trident Syn Series, VICE 2, Helix Syn V, PSY, and Eupho Syn V, Forrest has revolutionized the world of hands-free, self-powered, anally driven prostate massagers. His innovative designs have helped countless individuals expl

Get ready for a testosterone-fueled adventure with the Shameless Sex duo and special guest Dr. Justin Dubin! We're diving deep into the world of the big T, and trust us, it's not just about bulging biceps and bedroom antics.  Did you know testosterone isn't just a "man's hormone"? Dr. Dubin spills the tea on how this powerful little molecule affects all genders and why it might be the secret sauce to feeling fabulous at any age. From our personal "pellet party" experiences to cutting-edge treatments, we're leaving no stone unturned. In this episode, you'll discover: The ABCs of testosterone and its superhero-like effects on your body Why your T levels might be playing hide and seek as you age (and what to do about it) Our shocking transformation stories with testosterone pellets (spoiler: game-changer alert!) The lowdown on different T-boosting methods - pills, gels, pellets, oh my! Dr. Dubin's expert take on who should (and shouldn't) hop on the T train A sneak peek into the future of hormone replaceme

Dr. Alison Ash aka Dr. Aly returns for her eighth time on our show to do the 2.0 version of How to Eat Pussy Like a Champ. Dr. Aly covers everything from anatomy 101 when it comes to munching the box, why some people don't like eating pussy and how they can become pussy lovers, how learning and practicing oral skills leads more confidence around performance, applicable tips and tools that might apply to most pussy pleasure, 2.0 intermediate tips and tools for the advanced pussy lover, as well as how to talk to your partner about wanting more pussy loving. About our guest: Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she understands the complex societal challenges that lead to unsatisfying and disempowering intimate experiences. She has pioneer research on the orgasm gap, heterosexual dynamics, and queer and trans experiences. She has extensive training in Hakomi Mindfu

Get ready to dive deep into the fascinating world of compersion with our latest Shameless Sex episode featuring the brilliant Dr. Marie Thouin! As a leading expert and scholar on compersion in consensual non-monogamy, Dr. Thouin brings a wealth of knowledge and groundbreaking research to our listeners. Stay tuned because this episode will have some gold for you, too! What's in store for you: Discover what compersion really is (and what it's not!) Explore the relationship between compersion and jealousy Uncover the latest research findings on compersion in monogamy and Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) Learn practical tips for cultivating more compersion in your relationships Understand why developing compersion is crucial for healthy relationships Get insights on essential questions couples should discuss about compersion Dr. Thouin, the author of the first-ever scholarly book on compersion titled "What is Compersion," shares her journey in the field of sexuality and how she became a pioneer in compersion st

Calling all penis owners and lovers! It's time to break free from shame and embrace your sexual confidence. In this eye-opening episode, we're joined by the incredible Keeley Rankin, MA, a seasoned sex and relationship coach based in San Francisco since 2010. Get ready to dive deep into the world of penis-related anxieties in this episode as we explore: The lowdown on erectile dysfunction (aka–erectile struggles–because it’s NOT dysfunction!), premature ejaculation (aka–ejaculatory control–because there’s NOTHING premature about it!), and delayed orgasm – what they are, why they happen, and how to overcome them Size matters... or does it? Discover the truth about average penis size and learn to rock what you've got Ejaculatory control mastery: Tips and tricks to last longer and enjoy more “Small” penis, big pleasure: Become a legendary lover regardless of size Hot sex hacks for partners of all penis sizes  Keeley Rankin, MA is not just your average sex and relationship coach – she's a mentor, expert in

Get ready to unleash your inner kitten, Shameless listeners! This week, we're diving into the deliciously naughty world of Killing Kittens with the queen of female sexual empowerment herself, Emma Sayle. Buckle up for a wild ride as we explore how this badass entrepreneur turned her anger at sexual double standards into a global revolution of pleasure! From exclusive parties where women call the shots to the launch of the world's first sex-positive social dating app, WeAreX, Emma's spilling all the tea on how KK is changing the game. Curious about what goes down at a KK party? We've got the steamy details that'll make you purr with excitement! But wait, there's more! Emma's dishing on KK's expansion into KK Homme and the upcoming KK Cruise setting sail in 2026. Trust us, you don't want to miss this Mediterranean adventure that'll have you saying "Oh, buoy!" Whether you're a curious kitten or a seasoned sex-plorer, this episode is packed with empowering insights, tantalizing tidbits, and a whole lot of shamele

Get ready to tantalize your senses and revolutionize your relationships, Shameless listeners! This week, we're diving deep into the world of tantra and body positivity with San Francisco's hottest power couple, Erwan and Alicia Davon. These relationship gurus have been spicing up love lives for 25 years with their game-changing Davon Method. Prepare to shed those pesky body hang-ups as we explore how shame impacts intimacy, debunk body myths, and learn to embrace our sexy selves. The Davons dish out sizzling strategies to stay present during steamy moments and create a safe space for vulnerability. Plus, hear a jaw-dropping success story that'll make you want to sign up for their next retreat ASAP! Whether you're single and ready to mingle or coupled up and looking to level up, this episode is packed with tantalizing tips to transform your love life. Don't miss out on the Davons' secrets to sensual success – your body (and partner) will thank you! Tune in now and discover how to work with Erwan and Alicia at

Suzannah Weiss is a writer and sexologist based in Los Angeles. She is the author of Subjectified: Becoming a Sexual Subject, which describes her search for sexual empowerment and her vision for a world where women are subjects, not just objects, of desire. She has written over 8800 articles, which have appeared in publications such as The New York Times and The Washington Post. As a sex educator certified by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists, Suzannah has taught courses and given talks on topics including consent, orgasms, childbirth, non-monogamy, and neurodiversity. She is regularly quoted as an expert in publications like Cosmopolitan and Men's Health and also works as a sex/love coach, birth doula, and sexual assault counselor. She holds a Master of Professional Studies in Sexual Health from the University of Minnesota, a Bachelor of Science in Cognitive Neuroscience from Brown University, and a Bachelor of Arts in Gender & Sexuality Studies and Modern Culture &