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This episode is packed with all kinds of goodies on how to navigate modern day relationships. Whether you are monogamous, polyamorous, or wanting to add a third, the hosts of the Multiamory Podcast offer tools and tips on how to deepen connection, sharpen communication skills, and do relationships in a way that works for you as a unique sexual being.  About our guests: Jase, Dedeker, and Emily, created the Multiamory Podcast in 2014 because they were tired of the same old toxic dating advice. They offer new ideas and advice for multiple forms of love: everything from conscious monogamy to ethical polyamory and radical relationship anarchy. They combine the knowledge from their years of personal experience with the best information available and present it in a way that’s entertaining, thought-provoking, and easy to apply to your relationships to. They have been featured in Cosmopolitan, Self Magazine, Vice, as well as offering talks at large-scale companies such as Google. Learn all about Multiamory at multia

Alicia and Erwan join us once again to talk all about oral and hand pleasure for penises. They share their three top techniques for manual and oral stimulation, as well as plenty of other juicy tips on how to be a great giver. Be sure to check out Alicia and Erwan's upcoming online Valentine's Day Pleasure Course by clicking here  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 12.  About our guests: For over 25 years Erwan and Alicia, who joined Erwan in 2003, have been working successfully with singles and couples, teaching their signature process – the Davon Method to hundreds of students in groups, retreats, and individual sessions and helping them create the relationships of their dreams. Erwan and Alicia have a unique approach to relationship coaching that combines their educational backgrounds in psychology and sexuality and aspects of Zen Buddhism to provide a holistic method to effectively improve connection with the self and others. Erwan and Alicia have been together for almost 20 years and

We are so excited for this interview! Barbara Carrellas is Amy's favorite Tantra teacher as she beautifully blends sex, intimacy, BDSM, and Tantra in a way where everyday folks truly can access ecstatic orgasmic bliss. We talk all about how to think and breathe ourselves into orgasm, as well as the power of breath in orgasmic potential.  Note: We had some audio issues so we had to switch over to Zoom for this recording. Please be gentle with us. The interview starts at minute 14.  Interested in our online astrological speed dating event for Shameless Sex listeners? Sign up under "sex education" at purepleasureshop.com You can also join our free Discord Group here: https://discord.gg/wS7CrPwYRf About our guest: Barbara Carrellas is the founder of Urban Tantra®, an international community, a philosophy, and an inclusive sacred sexuality practice that adapts and blends a wide variety of sacred sexuality practices from Tantra to BDSM. She is the author of Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-first Century—now

In this episode we interview the creators of Bonobo Network - a sex-positive community that hosts sex parties, as well as educational workshops, retreats, potlucks, happy hours, discussion groups, online mixers, interviews, and so much more. We talk all about the ins and outs of sex parties, the importance of safety and consent, and how connection and community serve to create more aliveness in our everyday lives.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16. Want to make friends with other Shameless Sex fans? Join our online (free) Discord community by clicking here or go to bit.ly/shamelesssex About our guests: William is the founder and co-organizer of Bonobo Network. In 2014, the San Francisco Chronicle named William Winters the "de facto king of the East Bay polyamory scene." He's been working to earn the title ever since. William’s perspectives on non-monogamy, often through the lens of his own relationships, have appeared in San Francisco Magazine, KQED's Forum, the San Francisco Chronicle

What’s the problem with striving for 50/50 fairness in modern day marriages and relationships? How does an 80/80 approach lead to more connection and far less conflict? What does “the way you do life is the way you do sex" mean, and what 80/80 tools can couples apply to their relationships to inspire more intimacy and great sex? Nate Klemp, PhD answers all this and more.  We also answer a sex question about how to talk to a partner about keeping it casual.  Want to make friends with other Shameless Sex fans? Join our online (free) Discord community by clicking here or going to bit.ly/shamelesssex Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 22.  About our guest: Nate Klemp is a writer, philosopher, and entrepreneur. Along with his wife Kaley, he is the author of the newly released The 80/80 Marriage: A New Model for a Happier, Stronger Marriage (Penguin Random House). He is also the coauthor, with Eric Langshur, of the New York Times Bestseller Start Here: Master the Lifelong Habit of Wellbeing and i

What is “mind-blowing sex”? What gets in the way of having it? How can folks begin to move from "okay" or "good" sex to MIND BLOWING life-altering sex - not just from time to time but as a regular part our lives? The incredible Layla Martin shares all this and so much more.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 19.  About our guest: Layla Martin is a visionary rebel who teaches on sexuality, relationships, and self-love to people across the globe. Her devoted study of Tantra for 18+ years along with her sexuality studies at Stanford University have informed her unique teaching process and the creation of her proprietary VITA™ Methodology. Her programs have taught over 12,500 women, men, and non-binary people her method of using breath, sound, movement, meditation, and energy awareness to awaken their sexuality and reclaim their power and worthiness. She is a thought leader who combines mystical practices with the most up-to-date scientific approaches to transformation to enable radical libera

The holiday's are here and it's cold outside (at least where we live), so why not keep it hot by adding more pleasure into the mix? In this episode we share a number of sexy gift ideas that will inspire more eroticism and connection in your life including some that won't cost you a dime. We also share our top sex toy gift ideas for this holiday season.  Want 20% off and free shipping on the ultimate Naughty or Nice sexy kits for couples? Go to likeakitten.com/shameless or enter code SHAMELESS at checkout  Get 20% all sex toys at purepleasureshop.com until December 15th, 2021 (and 15% off thereafter with code SHAMELESSSEX)

Return guest Dr. Alison Ash joins is to talk all about fantasies: What kind of things do people most commonly fantasize about? What if we fantasize about someone other than our partner? Are fantasies and actual role play (acting them out) the same thing? Also, how can we up our fantasy game whether alone or with a partner? We also answer a sex question about jealousy over a partner's past sexual partners.  Want to skip for the interview? Fast forward to minute 14.  About our guest: Dr. Alison Ash is a sex and intimacy coach and educator, lecturer at Stanford University, author, and founder of TurnON.love. A champion for others overcoming shame and deepening pleasure, Aly helps her clients experience the kinds of sexual interactions and romantic relationships they long for.     As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, Aly has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering sexual experiences. She also draws on her extensive training in the Ha

Well this was a fun one. Our dear friend and Somatic Healer Ian Stratton joins us to talk all about how we can become our best selves in all fields including in relationships, with purpose and passion, and within our own being. Stay tuned for a playful yet informative episode.  We also answer a sex question about helping a partner deal with "premature ejaculation" shame.  About our guest: Our friend Ian Stratton is a man on a mission to help liberate others from trauma and unconscious programming, bringing their passions to life. He does this through his training as a somatic counselor, ethical use of psychedelics, and his latest offering and creation - a deep-dive program called Altared. To learn more visit santacruzmedicine.com and Altared.life Other links from Ian Stratton: -Brownies Spreadsheet -Brownies "How to" Doc -Wim Hof Beginner Practice (10 Mins) -Wim Hof Advanced Practice (20 Mins) -Short Guided Breath Journey (30 Mins) -Full Guided Breath Journey (60 Mins) Other links from our beloved sponsors: G

Ams and Kat from the 2HotWives podcast tell us all about their adventures opening up their longterm marriages and then venturing out into "the lifestyle". From everything including MMF and FFM threesomes to sexy house parties and swinger resorts, they share all about their experiences and even offer a few tips on how to do so lovingly and ethically.  We also answer a sex question about load and ball size.  Want to skip to the interview. Fast forward to minute 16. About our guests: Ams and Kat, hosts of the 2HotWives podcast, are on a mission to create a community where like-minded women can explore their sexual interests and embrace great sex as the ultimate in self-care. Both are deeply committed wives and mothers, exploring sex on their terms. Now, they have a podcast together and talk about open marriages, kink and BDSM, meeting couples to play with, seeing their partners with someone else, and the joy that phenomenal sex brings to their lives. To learn more visit 2hotwives.com Other links: Get 30% off any

What is the prostate all about? Where is it located, how is a prostate orgasm different from other orgasms, and how can toys help? Also, what are the health benefits of using prostate massagers such as Aneros? Return guest and prostate expert Forrest Andrews answers all this and more.  We also answer a sex question: I love my partner but I want more sex than she does and I feel like a scumbag...what should I do about this?  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 21. About our guest: Forrest Andrews is the Product and Business Development manager of Aneros. Forrest's relationship with Aneros began in 2002 and he has played an important role in the evolution of the company and their products ever since becoming their sole product tester and a consultant for the development of new products. Between 2003 to 2012 he mentored many hundreds of men helping them transition to new levels of sensual awareness through prostate massage. To check out all of Aneros’ incredible line of products go to aneros.co

In this episode we talk about squirting, gushing, g-spots and so much more with sex educator and (soon to be) author Kenneth Play. Kenneth shares the biology behind how it works as well as plenty of tips and tricks on how to do it (whether you are the giver or receiver). If you've ever wondered about squirting then you definitely do not want to miss this one.  We also answer a sex question about losing/lowering libido after menopause.  If you want to skip to the interview, fast forward to minute 22.  About our guest: Kenneth Play is an international expert on female pleasure who was named the World’s Greatest Sex Hacker by GQ & Men’s Health. Kenneth has been featured by more than 100 media outlets including The New York Times, Nightline, Cosmo, Playboy, Vice, and Huffington Post. Kenneth’s forthcoming book, “Beyond Satisfied: A Sex Hacker’s Guide to Endless Orgasms, Mind-Blowing Connection, and Lasting Confidence”, will be released in 2022. To learn more visit kennethplay.com and use code SHAMELESS for 50% of

Why is productivity valued above pleasure, and how does this harm sex and relationships? What about those folks who say “I just don’t have time (for sex/connection)? How can busy folks (and parents) add more pleasure into their daily lives?  We also answer a sex questions about how to fulfill your bisexual partner's fantasies.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 18. About our guest: Lisa Welsh is a Sexual Empowerment and Pleasure Coach who helps people to overcome sexual shame and insecurities so that they can step into their true orgasmic nature. She started out as a life coach, and gradually moved into the realm of sexuality after discovering the healing impact of reclaiming this part of her own identity. Lisa’s life used to revolve around her to-do list. As a busy mum with massive body image issues and no time for herself, sex started to feel like another chore to complete. She learned to put on an act to make her partner feel good and get it over as fast as possible. Eventually Lisa was

"Sexting" culture is pretty huge right now, so we decided to invite Kyer Wiltshire - one of our brilliant photographers who specializes in capturing the Natural Beauty through the lens of being nude in nature - to share all about DIY erotic photography whether you want to take a  sensual photo of yourself at home or outdoors, or for material to send to a lover. We also chat about tips on lighting, props, positions, angles, as well as how taking sensual or nude photos of ourselves can help us love our bodies even more.  About our guest: Kyer began taking pictures as a teenager, documenting my outdoor lifestyle, backpacking, and climbing in the Pacific Northwest. Later he lived in Spain, Latin America, and Thailand. He is based in Santa Cruz, California, and Bali. Kyer’s photographic focus has been on yoga, weddings, portrait, travel, and event photography. He has also published four books. His first book is Tribal Revival: West Coast Festival Culture, a gorgeous coffee table book that was published in 2009. H

Well this was a fun one. World renown comedian Lisa Lampanelli has joined forced with Nick Scopoletti and Beau McDowell to create the Losers With a Dream Podcast. Lisa is 60, celibate and couldn't be happier to be done with the deeeaakkk. Nick is dating, finally over blondes and loves women who ask for what they want. Beau is in love and still frustrated that his testosterone forces him is masturbate everyday. Note: This podcast is a mix of playful (sometimes mildly harsh) comedy and vulnerable real talk about sex and relationships. Be prepared to laugh and feel all the feels.  We also answer a sex question about getting put in "the friend zone".  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 17.  About our guests: Comedians Beau McDowell and Nick Scopoletti suck at dating, suck at jobs, and suck at most things in life. But they’re great at talking about their feelings and taking advice from their mentor, the former Queen of Mean Lisa Lampanelli. Losers With a Dream releases an episode every week and

In this super fun and informative episode with Sexpert Sunny Megatron we talk all about kink and BDSM, why learning more strategic "soft skills" are key, as well as plenty of playful and sexy tips and tricks on bringing more kink into your erotic life.  We also answer a sex question: Is it okay to go outside of my marriage if my partner isn't satisfying my sexual needs?  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 24.  About our guest: Sunny Megatron is a sexuality & kink educator and media personality. She’s the host and executive producer of the Showtime original television series, SEX with Sunny Megatron, plus co-hosts the AASECT Award winning American Sex Podcast and Open Deeply Podcast.  Sunny is a Certified Relationship Coach and American College of Sexologists International Certified Sex Educator plus was voted XBIZ 2021 Sexpert of the Year and Kinkly’s Sex Blogging Superhero of 2017. She’s been featured by outlets like Cosmo, Playboy, Buzzfeed, and CNN, plus is a contributing editor of XBI

Why and when does passion go out the window in so many long-term relationships? What are some tips and tools for lovers/couples to revive it?  We also answer a (graphic) sex question about what to do about upset stomach/bowels from "finishing inside" after anal sex.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16.  About our guest: Naomi Slater is an experienced love & intimacy coach, host of the “Divine Couples” podcast, yoga teacher and bio-energy therapist. She is the creator of the online course “Awaken Your Desire” - helping women reclaim their wild and powerful divine feminine. Naomi’s passion is guiding women and couples to heal their relationships and reclaim their power, pleasure and passion. To learn more visit ​​divine-couples.com. To sign up for her free masterclass go to awakenyourdesire.com Follow her on Instagram at @divine.couples Other links: Get 30% off any Satisfyer sex toy with code Shameless30 at satisfyer.com Get Feeld - our favorite dating app - FREE by clicking here or going

How can partners get through conflict and come back to being in a loving, connected place? How can partners help each other with their triggers? And what if the triggered person triggers you? Relationship expert and author Jayson Gaddis answers all this and more.  We also answer a sex question: What do I say when my partner asks me what I want but I have no idea, and how can I learn to orgasm through penetrative sex?  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16 (but you may miss out on some juicy sex questions). Other links: Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Want 20% off the ultimate BYOB sexy kits? Go to likeakitten.com/shameless or enter code SHAMELESS at checkout  Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of o

How can penis-owners step into their dominant power both in and out of the bedroom (without turning into "toxic masculinity")? What are the four most impactful keys to helping folks develop their personal masculine? And what are some fun/juicy tips for listeners who want to bring more kink into the bedroom? Orpheus Black - BDSM expert and three-time leather title holder with 20+ years of experience in the Dom world answers all this and more.  We also answer a sex question about "dirty talk".  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16.  About our guest: Orpheus Black is a Los Angeles-based public speaker, teacher, thought leader, and somatic visionary who specializes in the application of ancient wisdom in modern day settings. Orpheus aims to propel the intellectual and sensual evolution of masculinity both by challenging men to reconnect with its roots and by inviting them to embrace manhood in its fullness. In this role, he shares insights, offers tools, and speaks against societal norms of sh

Why are kegels important? Is there such things as doing too many kegel exercises? And for folks who have or are going to have a baby - what should they be concerned about regarding their pelvic floor? What changes should they be aware of? How does sex change? How long do you really have to wait to have postpartum sex? And what options are out there for more pleasure before, during and after having a baby?  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 12.  About our guest: Brooke Cates is the Founder & CEO of The Bloom Method, a pre and postnatal fitness method, redefining exercise for the modern mom. Brooke created The Bloom Method with a desire to empower women through movement before, during and after their pregnancies. Recognizing gaps in both the mainstream and pregnancy fitness worlds, she created a fitness method that consists of diastasis recti rehabilitation and prevention exercises, labor training, functional exercise movements and innovative core techniques that are designed to keep women s