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Erica and Milah of Good Moms Bad Choices joins us to talk about everything from talking to their kids about sex and why it's important to say "vagina", how smoking weed makes them better people/parents, what it's like being a sex podcaster and navigating the dating world, and the importance of being bad.  "Whether you like threesomes on the weekend or smoking weed, you should be able to do whatever the fuck you want as long as it is not negatively affecting your child and your spirit”. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15.  About our guests: If Oprah and Howard Stern had a baby it would be Good Moms Bad Choices. Meet Erica and Milah, two uncensored and outspoken sex and cannabis-positive parents who are redefining what modern motherhood looks like and breaking life's archaic stereotypes. Warning, this is not your everyday mommy Podcast! In fact, this audio diary is not only for parents but women who feel alone in their good and bad choices. From guests like social Activists, Shaun King, to

Why do a lot of vulva-owners experience painful sex? What can they do about it both holistically and via working with a medical professional? What about penis-owners who experience some form of "sexual dysfunction"? And how do the O-shot, P-shot, Femiwave and Gainswave work? Dr. Eisenbrown answers all this and more.  We also answer a sex question: Am I addicted to sex?  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15. About our guest: Dr. Eisenbrown is a private practicing urologist who is board certified in both Urology and Female Pelvic Medicine and Reconstructive Surgery (FPM-RS). Her practice is dedicated to restoring pelvic health in women. This includes all types of incontinence, but also includes reconstructive surgery for prolapse, female sexual dysfunction, stone disease, recurrent urinary tract infections, and all general urologic problems. Dr. Eisenbrown graduated at the top of her class at the University of Florida in 1997. She completed her general surgery and urology residency training

What does it mean to be a Feminine Dominatrix - both as a lifestyle and/or as a profession? What is the difference between physical and psychological punishment, and why might someone be into this? How does it serve them? What can everyday folks learn from FemDoms in terms of boundaries and how to be more dominant in the bedroom? And how do fetishes fit into FemDom work? Mistress Eva answers all this and more.  We also answer a sex question: I'm a vulva owner and I can't orgasm from penetrative sex.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 12.  About our guest: Eva Oh, aka Mistress Eva, is an International Dominatrix of Chinese-Burmese-English-Irish descent, and grew up across Asia, Australia and Europe. Her unique career began in 2012, when she left an unfulfilling corporate job to train at Sydney’s renowned Salon Kitty’s dungeons. She has since held select arrangements (and keys) from Berlin to Cape Town, London to Singapore, Dubai to New York – and back.  Mistress Eva holds a deep enthusiasm

What does the research say around why people want or choose non monogamy? How does someone know which relationship style is right for them? And what are some tips for folks who want to "open smarter"?  We also read a testimonial from Dr. Shawn about how to navigate anal sex and hemorrhoids.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 18. About our guest: Zhana Vrangalova, PhD, is a NYC-based sex and relationships consultant, speaker, and writer passionate about elevating society’s conversation about sex and relationships. She was born and raised in Macedonia, a small country in Southeast Europe, where traditional gender and sexual norms clashed with her own alternative sexual desires and interests, and inspired her to pursue a career of understanding and helping sexually adventurous individuals and couples live authentic, healthy, and ethical lives. Dr. Zhana has a BA in psychology from the University of Saints Cyril and Methodius, and a PhD in Developmental Psychology from Cornell University where

Return guest Samia Burton joins us to talk all about how to up your blowjob game. She even covers topics such as how to strengthen the receiver's (penis-owner’s) orgasm, as well as how to prolong their erection.  We also answer a sex question: My wife likes anal sex but I'm not into it. How can I learn to like it?  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 13.  About our guest: Samia created Sexual Essentials to take an unconventional approach to sexual education by offering hands on sex workshops such as the infamous MouthMasterclass, DickRiding101 & the Sex Conditioning Workout. These workshops are centered around building confidence in a bold yet respectable way where anyone can feel comfortable because they are a tribe & a 100% judgement free zone. To learn more visit thesexualessentials.com Other links: Get 20% off our fav CBD sleep and achy muscle remedy with code Shameless at sunsetlakecbd.com Get 30% off any Satisfyer sex toy with code Shameless30 at satisfyer.com Get 10% off + free shippi

Last week Erik Everhard taught us all about how to have great anal sex from a penis-owner's/top's perspective, so this week we are coming in hot from a bottom's perspective (AKA the person being penetrated). Happy Anal August everyone! Other links: Get Feeld - our favorite dating app - FREE by clicking here or going to this link: feeld.co/shameless  Get up to $200 off your customized dream mattress + two free pillows at helixsleep.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com Buy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast    

Return guest, author, coach, porn star and adult film director, Erik Everhard, joins us to teach us all about anal sex from a top's (the one doing the penetrating) perspective. Happy Anal August everyone! Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 17.  About our guest: Erik Everhard is one of world's top male porn stars, having starred in and directed over 3,000 films. Erik is a professional coach and one of the most decorated adult performers of the 21st century. He is a leading authority on sexual and mental techniques which can empower men and bring them success in the bedroom as well as in all other aspects of their lives. In addition to his wealth of practical knowledge, he holds a Masters level certification in Neuro-linguistic Programming (NLP). To learn more visit erikeverhard.com Other links: Get 20% off our fav CBD sleep and achy muscle remedy with code Shameless at sunsetlakecbd.com Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + f

Tim Lagman is a certified sex educator with the American College of Sexologists International and pleasure advocate based in Toronto, Canada. He began his sexual journey through escorting where he worked with a number of clients from different backgrounds and all walks of life ranging from couples, individuals, poly relationships, and everything in between.  Tim then went to study at Durham College where he received his diploma in Business Management specializing in the music industry and graduated with honors. In his free time, Tim likes to volunteer and give back to the community through outreach in Toronto’s LGBT scene providing sex education and harm reduction resources to the public. It is his mission in life to make sex fun and funny as he loves to make people laugh and believes in the curative powers of laughter. Sex is already a sensitive and touchy subject..."We might as well laugh at the fart noises!". To learn more visit sexedwithtim.com or follow Tim on social media: Instagram: https://www.insta

What makes a great lover? How can both couples and singles up their sexual mastery skills? Return guests and dream couple Erwan and Alicia answer all this and more.  We also answer a sex question about kegel balls/vaginal beads.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 18. About our guests: For over 25 years Erwan and Alicia, who joined Erwan in 2003, have been working successfully with singles and couples, teaching their signature process – the Davon Method to hundreds of students in groups, retreats, and individual sessions and helping them create the relationships of their dreams. Erwan and Alicia have a unique approach to relationship coaching that combines their educational backgrounds in psychology and sexuality and aspects of Zen Buddhism to provide a holistic method to effectively improve connection with the self and others. Erwan and Alicia have been together for almost 20 years and over 10K students have participated in their work since 1995. They have demonstrated their signature sens

Tune in for our favorite hot girl summer stories, plus tips on navigating breakups, single life, and how to live it up as your most badass single self this summer.  Other links: Get 20% off our fav CBD sleep and achy muscle remedy with code Shameless at sunsetlakecbd.com Get 20% off your delicious chilled summer wine game at DRINKBEV.com/SHAMELESS or use code SHAMELESS Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Buy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast    

Why do folks continue to debate if the g-spot is a real thing? Does everyone have the potential to enjoy g-spot stimulation? What if someone is new to using sex toys for penetrative sex? And what's the deal with the new VDOM strap-on technology?  We also answer a sex question: I'm jealous of the pleasure my wife gets from her vibrator.  Oh, and we are giving away some FREE sex toys and lube! Tune in to find out how to win! About our guest: Glenise Kinard-Moore is the founder of SkiiMoo Tech and the creator of The VDOM. The VDOM is the first app-connected prosthetic genital device that can go from flaccid to erect at the push of a button. An information security consultant by profession and an ambitious tech creative at night; Glenise is a self-proclaimed tech nerd and she likes to say that her superpower is breaking apart many things to create new things. To learn more visit thevdom.com Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $

Repeat guest and dear friend Dr. Nan Wise answers your sex questions about challenges with orgasm and pleasure. Never had an orgasm? Getting in your head during penetration? Or perhaps you orgasms just aren't what they used to be? Dr. Nan discusses all this while sharing applicable tips on how to bring more pleasure into your erotic world.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 21. About our guest: NAN WISE, Ph.D., is a cognitive neuroscientist, professor, licensed psychotherapist, certified sex therapist, board-certified clinical hypnotherapist, and certified relationship specialist. After almost twenty years in clinical practice, she became driven to understand how the brain creates moods and behaviors in relation to sex and other aspects of human experience. Having returned to academia to pursue a Ph.D. in cognitive neuroscience, she is now a cognitive neuroscience researcher at Rutgers University-Newark. She is the author of the book Why Good Sex Matters and has contributed her expert opin

Is there an art to kissing? Does technique matter? What are the qualities of a really great kisser? And what usually gets in the way of great kissing (aka not so great kissing)? Repeat guest Darshana Avila answers all this and more including some great tips and techniques.  We also answer a sex question: I don't want to have sex with my boyfriend anymore.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 19.  About our guest: “We are erotic by nature.” This is the foundation of everything that Darshana Avila shares, guiding women (and sometimes their partners, too) who are ready for radical intimacy in their lives to lay down their armor and claim their wholeness. She guides, mentors and coaches from the belief that none of us is actually broken and in need of fixing, but instead we have fragmented parts that need to be reclaimed and integrated into our being. Darshana is dedicated to helping people feel truly at home in their bodies and in alignment with their souls so they experience more ease and plea

What is romance really all about? Why do some people shy away from it? And how people can Americans learn a thing or two about romance from the French?  We also answer a sex question: I want to experience pegging with my wife but how can I bring this up when she doesn't like talking about sex?  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 17. About our guest: Guy Blaise is an author and Frenchman currently living and working in America. He lived in Eastern France and Paris, where he witnessed the dating experiences of the strong women in his family and listened closely to the advice his grandmother routinely gave them about love. After two decades of living in America and struck by the differences between two cultures’ approaches to romance and sex, Guy started writing books offering his insights and started The French Perspective blog. Learn more at thefrenchperspective.com Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 o

What is sex work and why do a lot of sex workers love working in this field? What is the difference between escorting, stripping, prostitution, etc? And what are some awesome tips sex workers can teach non-sex worker folks about how to be sexy, seductive and in their power in the bedroom? We also answer a sex question about best ways to stay clean/hygenic in the bedroom.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 12.  About our guest/s: Danica is a sarcastic, straightforward, sex-positive feminist with a passion for topics that some may consider “taboo.” Danica has a B.A in psychology, is a public speaker and university guest lecturer, host of her own sex work and sexuality podcast, is a devoted sex worker’s advocate and has a successful career as an exotic dancer - she knows some stuff! To learn more visit 50plusatip.com or listen to 50 Plus a Tip Podcast on your favorite podcast app.  Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlu

What does it mean to be transgender and non-binary? What are some of the current issues trans and non-binary folks are facing? And what are some tips for folks who are considering (or are already) transitioning?  About our guest: Looking at Rae now, you’d never guess that they used to travel with their fundamentalist Southern Baptist parents doing missionary puppet shows. It wasn’t until Rae went to college at a small conservative school in Texas that they embraced what they’d always known deep down -- they’d never fit into the box expected of them by their parents. As Rae watched their friends attempt to navigate their emerging sexuality and identity in such an oppressive environment, they realized they wanted to spend their life helping LGBTQ folks live their best, most authentic life. Not long after undergrad, Rae came out as queer. While their family was unsupportive, Rae finally felt free. You see, their whole life, they felt like they were wearing a shoe that was one size too small. Embracing their iden

What are non-ejaculatory orgasms and why would a penis-owner want to learn how to do this? How does it lead to more full bodied or multi-orgasmic experiences? And how might it increase intimacy and sexual connection between partners? Shasta and Ian share all this plus tips on how to master these techniques.  We also answer a sex question about dating someone who has never had sex before.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16. About our guests: Shasta Townsend and Ian Lavalley are best-selling authors, married, BIPOC sex and relationship experts and are leading a global love movement based in ancient eastern thought, Indigenous wisdom and cutting-edge science. Learn more at www.7starlove.com Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 2 for 1 of our fav

What are some of the obstacles folks with disabilities might have when it come to sex? What are some tips for folks with disabilities to have more pleasure in their lives? Kelly shares this as well as her favorite sex toys for folks with disabilities.  About our guest: Kelly Gordon is a 32 year old entrepreneur and consultant based in the West Midlands, UK! She has Spinal Muscular Atrophy Type 3 which is a genetic disability meaning for her, that she uses an electric wheelchair to get around. Kellys condition is progressive and has meant that she has faced loosing her ability throughout her life especially when her body faced big changes and challenges such as pregnancy. Kelly has two young sons, which is quite trying for any parent but absolutely loves parenting with her disability with help from her supportive partner Josh and her awesome team of PA’s! From a young age Kelly was outspoken and never let anyone dictate what her disability meant or allowed her to do this has seen her go through mainstream scho

What gets in the way of people having great sex with themselves or others? What is the most powerful thing people can do to amp up the pleasure? Return guest and dear friend, Pyasa, answers all this and more (along with plenty of applicable tips for how to how more sexual pleasure in your life).  We also answer a sex question about dirty talk. And we share our fav sex toy of the week: The Kurve  About our guest: Pyasa is a trauma-informed somatic sexologist, Interdisciplinary Pelvic specialist, and sexological bodyworker. She mentors women and couples online, facilitates individual and group transformational retreats, and has been raising consciousness about the importance of sexual sovereignty as a public speaker on stages around the world. She is also the author of the Intimacy Adventure Playbook. Pyasa believes pleasure is our birthright as human beings and a powerful healing force. She is passionate about helping people unleash from the disempowered conditioning imposed by sex negative cultures which hav

Why is masturbation important? How can it change your life for the better? And what are some of the ways people can bring more self-pleasure into their lives? August shares her own personal journey as well as plenty of tips and applicable life hacks for ways you can have great sex with yourself.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 17.  About our guest: August McLaughlin is a nationally recognized health and sexuality writer, media personality and host and producer of the podcast, Girl Boner Radio, which offers a spicy blend of personal stories, in-depth reporting and inspiration. Reviewers have called the show “Sex in the City meets NPR” and the “Fresh Air of Sex” and the show frequents Apple Podcasts’ top 100 sexuality chart. August’s work as an advocate for sexual empowerment and gender parity led her to the TEDx stage and to attend the 2016 United State of Women summit as a nominated change maker. Her articles have appeared in a range of notable publications, including Cosmopolitan, The