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Learn how to give pleasure to your partner WHILE bringing yourself to orgasm with you on top! This episode is packed full of tips, tricks, position techniques, and a lot of laughter.  About our guest: Samia created Sexual Essentials to take an unconventional approach to sexual education, by offering hands on sex workshops such as the infamous #MouthMasterclass #DickRiding101 & the Sex Conditioning Workout. These workshops are centered around building confidence in a bold yet respectable way where anyone can feel comfortable because they are a tribe & a 100% judgement free zone. To learn more visit thesexualessentials.com. Use code MasturbationMay now through 5/31/21 for a discount Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get

What is crossdressing and why does it feel so good (and arousing) for penis owners who embrace the feminine part of themselves? How does crossdressing show up in sexuality? And how is this related (or not related) to sexual orientation or gender identity?  We also answer a sex question: Menopause is ruining my marriage.  About our guests: Sissy Becca has been an alpha male all of his life, but discovered his feminine side 15 years ago. Over the past 15 years he has alternating with struggling with his desire and being proud of his femininity. Over the last 2 years he found the perfect woman who helped him understand that being a CD is just a part of his psyche and that he should be perfectly content with living a double life. He now is happy as an alpha male most of the time, but also proud of being the sissy crossdresser the rest of the time.  Ms. Ava Durga discovered the fun of feminizing males in 2001, and has helped crossdressers, sissies, and bi-curious males achieve their potential at The Sissy Parlor i

Billy joins us to share his shameless slutty YET SAFE sexual adventures including installing a glory-hole in his apartment, masked outdoor blowjobs, getting jerked off by a FemDom and then cumming on her male sub's face, and more.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 10. About our guest: Billy Procida is a professional stand-up comedian, podcaster, and accidental gang-bang organizer. For over a decade, he's entertained audiences all over the country and can be seen at comedy clubs around New York City. His show The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-Positive Quest for Love was named a Top Sex Podcast by Esquire and Uproxx three years in a row, and his sex & dating advice has been featured in outlets like Cosmo, YourTango, Men's Health, and more. Oh, and his father is finally proud of him. To learn more visit ManwhorePod.com/itunes Other links: Get Feeld - our favorite dating app - FREE + 50% off your first 3 months of the Majestic Membership by clicking here or going to this link: feeld.co/shameless  G

NOTE: Dr. Willow Brown's retreat has been moved to June 12th, 2021.  Did you know that you can have a kidney orgasm, a liver orgasm, and utilize sex as medicine to change, heal and empower you? Friend and repeat guest Dr. Willow Brown joins us to to talk about all of this, as well as sex for longevity, vitality, & spiritual/emotional harmony, the four phases of moon cycle and five Chinese elements in relation to sexuality, and how to unlock and embody your inner Queen.  We also answer a sex question about vulva shaming.  About our guest: Willow Brown holds a doctorate in Chinese Medicine, blending ancient taoist philosophy with sexual and spiritual practices that ignite the souls true calling. She is devoted to the sexual healing of humanity and works to promote and open receptive pleasure pathways in each person she works with. Willow works with her clients and patients on every level. Physical, spiritual, emotional, sexual and psychological. You will not find a more holistic approach to a long happy and hea

Ian Kerner, PhD, joins us to talk about why he asks all of his clients the question, So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex (also the title of his new book), and how this question helps uncover couple's repetitive sex scripts. He also shares tips on how to re-write old sex scripts for more sex and better intimacy, as well as ways to "turn off" to really turn on.  We also answer a sex question: My wife has never had an orgasm. How can I help her achieve one + open up more sexually?  Ian Kerner is a licensed psychotherapist and nationally recognized sexuality counselor who specializes in sex therapy, couples therapy, and working with individuals on a range of relational issues. He is also the New York Times bestselling author of She Comes First and many more, including his latest book So Tell Me About The Last Time You Had Sex, helping couples achieve more intimacy and better sex. He is a Clinical Fellow of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists; certified by the American Association of

How can what feels like the ultimate betrayal turn into the ultimate blessing? How can folks navigate the feeling of their lives/world falling apart - especially when it comes to breakups and divorce? And what if you have kids? Tammy Letherer, author of The Buddha at My Table, answers all this and more.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 25. About our guest: Tammy Letherer is an author, writing coach, and blogger. She holds a degree in Journalism from Indiana University and has enjoyed a long and varied professional writing career. In addition to The Buddha at My Table, Letherer is also the author of the novel, Hello Loved Ones and the children’s book, My Health is in My Hands. She lives in Chicago with her three children. Read her blogs on Huffington Post or learn more about her work at TammyLetherer.com. Also visit her on Facebook, Twitter, and LinkedIn. Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while

What is Extended Orgasm? How does it lead to a hot passionate relationship and/or help couples get the chemistry back into their love lives? And what about for single folks? How can they practice/have Extended Orgasms? We also answer a sex question: I'm having a a hard time making my partner orgasm.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 14.  About our guests: For over 25 years Erwan and Alicia, who joined Erwan in 2003, have been working successfully with singles and couples, teaching their signature process – the Davon Method to hundreds of students in groups, retreats, and individual sessions and helping them create the relationships of their dreams. Erwan and Alicia have a unique approach to relationship coaching that combines their educational backgrounds in psychology and sexuality and aspects of Zen Buddhism to provide a holistic method to effectively improve connection with the self and others. Erwan and Alicia have been together for almost 20 years and over 10K students have participa

Dating and relationship expert Damona Hoffman shares her top tips for successful dating - both online and in person, as well as advice for folks looking for long term partners. She also touches on the question: “Is it dating preference or racial bias?”.  For this week's sex question, we answer: How do I navigate losing attraction for my partner after excessive he's gained a lot of weight? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15.  About our guest: Damona Hoffman is a certified dating coach, radio host, and TV personality. Damona starred in the TV series #BlackLove and A Question of Love on FYI TV (A & E Networks), she hosts the Dates & Mates with Damona Hoffman Radio Show & Podcast, plus she is the Love Expert for BET.com. Damona has made hundreds of media appearances on NBC, Fox, Animal Planet, SiriusXM, People Magazine and more. To learn more visit damonahoffman.com/   Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $

What happens to the mind/body/spirit when someone experiences sexual trauma? How does sexual trauma show up in sex, intimacy and relationships? And what are some ways folks can begin to heal from their sexual trauma? Darshana Avila answers all this and more.  We also answer a sex question about shame while exploring "dirty talk" after having an affair.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 30.  About our guest: Darshana Avila helps women (and sometimes their partners too) who are ready for radical intimacy to lay down their armor and claim their wholeness in life and love, tapping into the power of the erotic within themselves. She believes that none of us is actually broken and in need of fixing, but instead we have fragmented parts that need to be reclaimed and integrated into our being. Her unique approach facilitates this journey and supports her clients and students in having a sense of deep intimacy within themselves, more access to the power of the erotic in their lives and greater aut

What is cuckolding and why might someone be into it? How common is it, and how might someone find a cuckolding relationship? Venus answers all this and more.  We also answer a sex question about losing sexual attraction to a partner after they've transitioned from FTM.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15. About our guest: From the moment Venus learned about cuckolding relationships 6 years ago, she knew it fit exactly who she was and she dove right in. She wanted to reach out to other women who might not be aware this kind of relationship existed so in 2015 she began writing about her stories and experiences of dating, cuckolding, and becoming a Queen of Spades, on venuscuckoldress.com. In early 2020 she branched out to launch the Venus Cuckoldress Podcast which thanks to her infectious enthusiasm and genuine nature, has since shot to the top of the podcast charts.  Venus is passionate about cuckolding and loves having the opportunity to lend her voice to show people the real, loving, an

What can people do to overcome shame around sexuality that was given to them via religion? How do sexual and personal boundaries come into all of this? And why is the G-spot more than a spot? Melissa answers all this and more.  We also answer a sex question about how to set up an all-day sex marathon.  Also, come joins us for live sex questions and sex talk on the Clubhouse App Thursday 3/4 at 8pm PST! Here is the link: https://www.joinclubhouse.com/event/PN05zX5l About our guest: Melissa Hite is the founder of Higher Sex Education where she does one-on-one coaching, teaches classes and workshops, and offers online courses. She's a sexual-spiritual advisor which means that she works holistically with clients to integrate all parts of themselves in practical ways. She is a wealth of wisdom from a unique blend of life experience and academic education. Not only is she certified as a Holistic Sex Educator through The Institute of Sexual Education and Enlightenment, she's triple certified as a pole fitness instru

Why do so many people feel shame about the size or look of their cock? What is the truth when it comes to penis size and pleasure during penetrative sex? And what are some important tools for overcoming shame and embarrassment about penis size?  We also answer a sex question about herpes.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 18.  About our guest: Soleiman Bolour is a Men’s Neo Tantra and Mindset coach. Soleiman weaves his studies of sacred sexuality, psychology, and NLP to bring transformation to the men he coaches. He help’s men bring back purpose and possibility into their lives so that they can live the life of their dreams. To learn more visit ecstaticfreedom.com Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% off delicious, organic, ready to eat meals with code SHAMELESS at sakara.com/shameless Get 15% off of some of our favorite sex toys

How can people navigate threesomes smoothly and ethically (and pleasurably!)? What about aftercare post threesome - what are the protocols? And how do you find that third person? Stella Harris answers all this and more. We also answer a sex question about HPV.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16. About our guest: Stella Harris is changing the way people experience their sex lives. As a certified intimacy educator and sex coach, she gives her students the tools and confidence to explore their sexuality safely and free of shame. The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes discusses some of the most frequently asked questions she’s experienced in her work around one common topic: threesomes. A national and international speaker, Harris teaches everything from pleasure anatomy, to communication skills, to kink and BDSM. To learn more visit stellaharris.net Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering th

Join us for this super playful yet informative episode where the fabulous educator and adult performer Rain DeGrey teaches us all about strap-on play.  We also answer a sex question about men who like to wear women's lingerie.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 14.  About our guest: Rain DeGrey is an international educator, writer, presenter, podcaster, and performer that has been writing articles and teaching classes, focusing on kink, relationships, and sex education, since 2009. Her work has been featured in places such as Playboy TV, Seattle Erotic Arts Festival, The SF Fetish Ball, and more, and in 2017 she was named the dirtiest mouth in San Francisco upon winning the Dirty Talk Game Show at Dark Odyssey. To learn more visit raindegrey.com   Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get $25 off some of the best feeling sex sheets with co

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What are some of the ways men have been conditioned to think about sex and how can they approach it in a different way - not only to be better lovers but to have more profound sexual experiences themselves? How can men experience full body orgasms, multiple orgasms, non-ejaculatory orgasms, and learn to last as long as they want? Destin Gerek answers all this and more.  Be sure to check out his free video offering at evolvedmasculine.com/shameless We also answer a sex question about how to orgasm during partner play.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 20.  About our guest: Destin Gerek is a globally recognized leading voice in masculinity, sexuality, and personal empowerment. A Certified Sexologist through The American College of Sexologists International, he is the founder and CEO of The Evolved Masculine, a pioneering coaching and training company for men, and author of the best-selling book “The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs, and The One She Craves”. Destin is also an in

Beloved friend and repeat guest, Lisa Nicks-Balthasar, returns to tell us her story about finding and losing her soulmate, resulting in a profound journey of deep heartbreak, grief and betrayal, as well as the lessons and tools she used to heal, keep her heart open, and find profound love (and another soulmate!) once more. Her dear partner, Chris, also shares his experience supporting Lisa's journey as she grieves her past husband while simultaneously opening up her heart again. Be prepared to feel some feels :) Want to fast forward to the interview? Skip to minute 18.  About our guest: Lisa Nicks-Balthasar is an inspirational speaker, author and teacher. Her memoir, Believe! which follows her amazing odyssey through deep loss, grief, love and life, has attracted the support of award-nominated screenplay writer Scott Marshall Smith ("Men of Honor”). Scott describes her “Tragic meets Magic” story as “A gossamer web of small, yet profound miracles that add up to something much more wondrous than their sum." He

On this bonus ad-free episode, Pleasure and Sexual Empowerment Coach, Samantha Helm Stelk, joins us to talk all about her personal journey as she went from struggling with orgasms to becoming her most juicy, orgasmic self. She also shares tips and tricks on how YOU can tap into your ultimate orgasmic potential.  About our guest: Samantha is a Pleasure & Sexual Empowerment Coach with a trauma informed background and a certified VITA™ Sex, Love & Relationship Coach through The Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexuality. Her specialty is in lovingly guiding women from feeling unworthy, insecure about their bodies, disconnected from their sexuality and disempowered in their lives to feeling absolutely in love with who they are, being intimately connected to their pleasure, and an empowered creator of their lives. She is known for her ability to curate a safe space in which you will explore the realms of your innermost being, get clarity on and bring life to your deepest desires and dreams. To learn more visit lov

Allison Moon, repeat guest and author of the new book Getting It: A Guide to Hot, Healthy Hookups and Shame-free Sex joins to to talk about casual sex and hook-ups. We discuss everything from how folks can navigate hook-ups in a way that feels really good for them, ways to be better flirts, as well as some of the signs that it's time to end the relationship, plus tips for how to navigate those difficult conversations.  We also answer a sex question: I want to have sex with someone who is bigger than my last boyfriend. Is there anything I can do to “prepare” to have sex again in case it’s painful?  About our guest: Allison is a sex educator and author of the award winning, critically-acclaimed sex-ed book, Girl Sex 101, the Tales of the Pack series of novels about lesbian werewolves, the sexual memoir, Bad Dyke, as well as her latest release, Getting It: A Guide to Hot, Healthy Hookups and Shame-free Sex. As a sex educator, Allison has presented her workshops to thousands of people around the US and Canada. To

Davey Wavey - adult film star and director of educational, affirming, AND hot” AKA “good for you porn on himeros.tv - shares his thoughts on how mainstream porn shaped modern day sexuality, as well as some of the positive things he has learned about sex from working in the porn industry and how folks who have shame around watching porn can reclaim it in a positive way. We also answer a sex question about finding confidence being on top. And one of our dear listeners teaches us a little something about cuckolding and hotwifing.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 20.  About our guest: With more than 700 million video views, Davey Wavey's YouTube channel is the largest and most-viewed LGBT channel on YouTube. Davey's latest adventure is the launch of the gay erotic website Himeros.tv. By collaborating with renowned sex coaches, tantric instructors and sexologists, Himeros.tv uses erotic video content to inspire better gay sex through connection, pleasure and sexual exploration. Himeros.tv is