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Author, Podcaster, and Sex Educator extraordinaire, Dr. Jess O’Reilly joins us to answer your sex questions: How do I initiate sex when I lack confidence in the bedroom? Is there something wrong with my labia? How do I talk to my partner about my sexual trauma, and how can I heal?  What are your sex and dating tips for someone who is visually impaired?  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 19. About our guest: An award-winning speaker, Dr. Jess O’Reilly has worked with thousands of couples from all corners of the globe to transform their relationships via her wildly successful Marriage As A Business program. From Prague and Istanbul to Albuquerque and New York City, her relationship retreats receive rave reviews from some of the most powerful couples in the world who are drawn to her enthusiastic, practical and no-nonsense approach to happily ever after. Jess is also co-host of the popular podcast Sex With Dr. Jess, and she contributes regularly to the biggest names in international media suc

Aida Manduley teaches us all about long-distance relationships and how to keep them fresh, connected and spicy.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 20.  Aida Manduley, LCSW is an award-winning Latinx activist, trauma-focused therapist, and sexuality educator known for big earrings and tackling taboos. Their politics are radical, their life is ridiculous, and their penchant for irreverence as intimacy is notorious. Manduley's current focus areas include community accountability, healing justice, and work centering queer and trans people of color. To learn more visit http://www.aidamanduley.com/ Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com Easily connect with sexy women at mygirlfund.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Wa

Willow Brown is a Chinese Medicine Doctor and internationally recognized teacher of Taoist Sexology. Willow has studied the human body and it’s correspondence with nature extensively for over two decades. Her style is a blend of many modalities including Taoist Yoga, Qi Gong, acupuncture, nutrition, cranial sacral, and Sacred Sexuality. Her online programs and private practice focuses on women’s health, endocrine function, and sexuality. Willow guides women from low libido, emotional disharmony, menstrual disorders, menopause, infertility, and post-partum depression to return to their innate equanimity so they can create sustainable balance in their lives, feel in control of their emotions and raise their sensual frequencies for greater magnetism and increased orgasmic potential.                         Willow offers Taoist Sexology courses all around the world, inspiring women to  experience pleasure in ALL that they do.  To learn more about Willow's online courses, retreats and other offerings, visit yinw

Why is pleasure so important, both in and out of the bedroom? How does the brain and hormonal system affect this? And how can people have sustainable pleasure in longterm relationships?  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 19. About our guest: Nan Wise, Ph.D., is a cognitive neuroscientist, professor, licensed psychotherapist, certified sex therapist, board-certified clinical hypnotherapist, and certified relationship specialist. After almost twenty years in clinical practice, she became driven to understand how the brain creates moods and behaviors in relation to sex and other aspects of human experience. Having returned to academia to pursue a Ph.D. in cognitive neuroscience, she is now a cognitive neuroscience researcher at Rutgers University-Newark. Dr. Nan has contributed her expert opinion to outlets such as National Geographic, The Atlantic, Time, Glamour, Women’s Health Magazine, The Washington Post, HuffPost, Romper, Bustle, and has an weekly column in Glamour, Ask Dr. Nan, in which

In this episode we learn all about erotic touch techniques and how to be a phenomenal hands-on lover. Christina also shares about the mysterious A-Spot, a powerhouse for pleasure! Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 20 to dive right in. About our guest: Curiosity is Christina’s driving force. Being born during the Soviet Era in a conservative household that never spoke about sex unless it was telling adult jokes gave her an insatiable appetite to dive deep in the world of sexuality. She’s been studying sexuality for more than 14 years and she believes that the secret to the universe is between our legs. She’s traveled to over 60 countries speaking, giving workshops and learning from other great teachers. She’s on a mission to bring sexuality out of the dark ages where our sexuality becomes the source of our peace and happiness instead of the source of our shame, guilt, trauma, pain, and anxiety. To learn more visit confidentlovers.com For Christina's article on how to find a good erotic mass

How does the pill affect sexual responsiveness, choice of partner, or even seemingly unrelated life choices like career or attainment of higher education? And what should we be doing to better educate and inform women about their choices, bodies, and options? We also answer a sex question: I want more kissing and intimacy in my relationship.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 19.  About our guest: A leading researcher in the dynamic and rapidly expanding field of evolutionary psychology Sarah E. Hill completed her PhD at UT Austin and is now a professor at TCU. She is also the author of the new book, THIS IS YOUR BRAIN ON BIRTH CONTROL: THE SURPRISING SCIENCE OF WOMEN, HORMONES, AND THE LAW OF UNINTENDED CONSEQUENCES. With more than fifty scientific publications and multiple prestigious research grants to her credit, Dr. Hill has become an authority on evolutionary approaches to psychology and health. She has been quoted in The New York Times, The Washington Post, Scientific American, and

The intro of the episode is about some of our favorite sex toys, as well as some awesome Valentine's Day activity and gift recommendations including as few that won't cost you a thing.  The interview of the podcast is all about navigating non-traditional relationships including non-monogamy and anything beyond the traditional "get married to one person forever" way of being. Our guest also helps us answer some of your sex questions about non-monogamy. To checkout the Clone-a-Willy and Clone-a-Pussy go to www.cloneawilly.com and use code SHAMELESSSEX for 20% off.  To checkout the We-Vibe Chorus and Moxie go to We-Vibe.com and use code Shameless for 5% off plus free shipping.  Want to fast forward to the interview? Skip ahead to minute 34 (Note - our mic disconnected during the recording, so we apologize for the poor sound quality).  Kitty Chambliss is a #1 Amazon Best Selling author of Jealousy Survival Guide: How to feel safe, happy, and secure in an open relationship. She is also a relationship coach, keyn

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Sex Educator and dear friend Kristen returns to answer your sex questions about cum and oral fetishes, menstrual cups, gender-bending and lingerie fetishes, demi-sexuality, virginity, and how to be a confident lover. Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Sign up for the newsletter at marginswine.com to be the first to receive news about new releases. Plus use code SHAMELESSSEX10 for 10% off 3+ bottles, or SHAMELESSSEX15 for 6+ bottles 

How does the body internalize sexual trauma and how can we heal it through pleasure? How does this apply sexual pain? And what about kink as a means for working with trauma?  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 19.  About our guest: Melissa Fritchle, LMFT is a Holistic Sex Therapist & award-winning Sex Educator with a private practice in Santa Cruz, CA. She is also a Certified Mindfulness Meditation teacher and is working on a second book, The Body as Guru. She is the author of The Conscious Sexual Self Workbook and writes the pleasure activism blog, Transformational Pleasure. Founder & Director of Trauma-Informed Sex Positive Therapy Training, she promotes inclusive sexual health around the world. To learn more visit www.mf-therapy.com Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get one week of "the Netflix of porn" with code SHAMELESS at adultt

In this episode we talk all about soft cocks, dry pussies, and our stance on hardness and wetness.  We also answer a sex question about erotic text messaging and dirty talk.  Want to fast forward to the interview? Skip to minute 22.  About our guests: Nicoletta is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Sexologist and Simone is an actor-turned-law-student who really likes to talk about sex stuff. Together, they chat with folks from across sexuality, kink, and professional spectrums about desire, pleasure, shame, stigma and (of course) bodily functions on the Sluts and Scholars Podcast. Join these slutty scholars as they help to make your sex smarter, and your smarts sexier. Available on just about all of the podcast apps  Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com Meditators have better

Tune in as we learn all about Knot Love with Edward Willey. Knot Love isn’t just about rope tying techniques. It’s about learning how to stay deeply connected to your partner, read their desires and needs, and build a scene together that cultivates trust, passion, and connection. It’s also about learning how to cultivate and embody relaxation, confidence, and awareness inside yourself. We also answer a sex question about sex and penis size after bladder surgery. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 27. About our guest: Edward Willey has been teaching erotic rope play since 2014 and has loved knots since he was a Boy Scout. He combines his passion for rope with his long-time practice of Aikido and Sheng Zhen. His experience with these two arts of unconditional love provides a foundation for teaching how to develop open-hearted connection and awareness along with technical rope tying skills. He believes that in addition to the commonly used Japanese terms shibari (“to tie”) & kinbaku (“to bi

What is like being a Professional Dominatrix? What is Financial Domination, and why might someone enjoy it? How does this compare to being a Lifestyle Dom?  We also answer a sex question: How do I suggest we start start using condoms when we've already had unprotected sex? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 30.  About our guest: MISTRESS MARLEY is a Pro Domme, a Sex Educator and an Adult Event Organizer. Hailing from the South, she made her way to New York City where she began to dabble in the BDSM industry. With an undergraduate and graduate degree in Human Sciences, she naturally loves to dive into the mind, so why not mix that with kink? When she’s not dominating loyal servants, she spends her time educating women on how to be the domme they've always wanted to be through her organization "Black Domme Sorority". To learn more visit thechocolatedomme.com Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while

The meat of this episode is about how shy men can learn to flirt, attract and date women. It's a bit different for us as we aren't fans of big generalizations or hetero-normative language, but we decided to switch it up as our guest truly does have some great tips to offer.  The intro of this episode is a long one as we talk about relationships as well as the exciting (and sometimes terrifying) process of falling in love. We also answer a sex question: Is deleting cheating?  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 33.  About our guest: Tripp Kramer is an international dating coach for men. He created his "TED system" to help shy men confidently attract the women they desire. In his earlier years he was a shy guy who figured out through trial and error how to get better and meeting, dating and finding the right type of woman for you. He currently has a popular podcast on iTunes called "How To Talk To Girls" and has a book called Magnetic which teaches all his secrets on dating and attraction. To

In this episode we sit down with fellow podcasters and Pleasure Podcast Network friends Cam and Karen Lee of the Sex talk With My Mom podcast. We chat all about what it means to be a cougar, how to talk to your kids AND parents about sex, and why you should date a mama’s boy, We also answer a sex question: I get turned on knowing my wife thinks I’m small down there. Is this normal? About our guests: Sex Talk With My Mom offers sex and relationship advice while exploring the dynamic between a sexually-liberated, cougar mom and her comedian son. They feature guests ranging from legendary porn star Nina Hartley to their previous sexual partners. They have "the talk" every Monday and Thursday to make you laugh and open the conversation around sex. Esquire ranked them at the top of their list of "Best Sex Podcasts" and they have been featured on Megyn Kelly TODAY and Comedy Central's Tosh.O. To learn more visit sextalkwithmymom.com Other Links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our

In this episode we share our top 10 favorite sex toys for this holiday season.  Check out the Gigi 2, the Ina Wave, and the Luna balls at lelo.com and use code SHAMELESS for 20% off* Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com  

Born and raised in New York City, this Spanish and Italian Bronx born native entered the world of Female Impersonating and Escorting in the late 80’s. His Drag persona Fiona St. James has experienced success in night clubs worldwide as well as being the 15th elected and still the only Latina Empress of The Imperial Court of New York. He has appeared in film on “To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything Julie Newmar”, “Stonewall”, “Ugly Betty”, and “Orange is the New Black”.  His most memorable role was playing the resident prison tranny bitch on the hit HBO series “OZ” for five of the six seasons. His adventures in drag and escorting inspired him to write his memoirs where he shares stories about pushing boundaries and raising eyebrows sexually, professionally and personally with no shame for over 30 years!  For his book visit: http://www.fionastjames.com To book a massage appointment call (646 387 9048) or visit: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/28569/ https://rentmasseur.com/CuteSmoothBobby

Alice Little is the most successful licensed sex worker in the United States. Alice has been voted the #1 Companion of the Year at the world famous Moonlite Bunny Ranch legal brothel in Carson City, Nevada. She is also a go-to intimacy and sexuality coach, an outspoken advocate for sex worker rights and vocal champion for an all-inclusive sex-positive society. Alice has managed to use her notoriety as one of the highest-earning sex workers in the world to push forward causes that she believes in. She founded the political action group “Hookers for Healthcare” to fight for healthcare policies that benefit sex workers and other stigmatized groups. She also co-founded the Nevada Brothel Association, a committee that advocates for the rights of women working in Nevada’s bordellos. Alice has been featured in the Huffington Post, Buzzfeed, The Daily Beast, Refinery 29, BBC News, CNN, ABC Nightline, and on the Tim Ferris Show and Shane & Friends podcasts. To learn more visit thealicelittle.com Want to skip to th

What are our Core Desires, and how can they lead to hotter, more fulfilling sex? Danielle Harel, Ph.D., and Celeste Hirschman, MA, creators of the Somatica® Method of Sex and Relationship Coaching teach us all about how to dive deeper into our erotic selves. We also answer a sex question: How can I regain broken trust in my relationship? Want to fast forward to the interview? Skip ahead to minute 14. About our guests: Danielle Harel, Ph.D., and Celeste Hirschman, MA are the co-creators of the Somatica® Method of Sex and Relationship Coaching and the co-founders of the Somatica® Institute. Somatica is a cutting-edge, experiential coaching approach that helps clients shift their neuropatterning so that they can find new, more fulfilling and expressed forms of relating emotionally and sexually. In their Somatica courses, Celeste & Danielle train professional Sex and Relationship Coaches and help individuals and couples transform their lives through personal growth in the arena of sex and relationships. They hav

November AKA Movember is Prostate Awareness Month! Inspired by Charlie Glickman, PhD and Aislinn Emirzian’s awesome book The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Explorations For Men and Their Partners, we are offering all kinds of tips on prostate pleasure and health, as well as an opportunity to win all kinds of prizes via our Instagram campaign.  We also answer a sex question: My partner's libido has shifted in our longterm relationship. How do I spice things up to make things exciting and juicy again? Instructions for the contest: Open to anyone 18+ of all genders. Listen to this episode where we will share tips and facts about prostate pleasure and health. Then go to Shameless Sex Podcast's Instagram to learn more about how to enter. You will be asked to DM or email us an anonymous photo of yourself like the one here stating something that you learned about prostate pleasure or health. Photo must contain a mustache, and it can be real or fake (including one drawn your the finger). We will use t