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What does it mean to be submissive? Why do some people like exploring "sub space" and what are some tips on exploring submission without sacrificing one's strength?  Veronica is a multi-passionate entrepreneur on a mission to strip people bare—of the expectations and limiting beliefs that do not serve them—so they can thrive unapologetically exactly as they are. From systems to spankings, she emboldens womxn to leverage their pleasure and power in business and the bedroom with Business Laid Bare (systems for creatives and entrepreneurs that scale and save their sanity) and Desires Laid Bare (kink education for beginners in a fun and shame-free way). She gets all hot and bothered by diligent process, thoughtful protocols, and high-quality service: from the spreadsheets to the bedsheets. To learn more visit https://veronicayanhs.com. Check out her YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/desireslaidbare Other Links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant a

Ashley Manta returns to teach is all about hand jobs AKA hand sex. Learn Ashley's signature position, the "Reclining Diamond". Master the "Pepper Grinder" and "Lower Lip Tease". Use these "Handy Skills" to make hand pleasure the main course! Ashley Manta has mindfully combined sex and cannabis as part of her CannaSexual® brand. Her work has been profiled in The Huffington Post, BBC, LA Weekly and featured on VICELAND. She co-founded "International Hand Job” day … yes this is a real holiday that is celebrated around the world. Her work is featured at mainstream, adult and cannabis events and retreats around the world. Learn more at http://www.ashleymanta.com/   Other Links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Be the first to get Margins Wine's new releases by signing up for their newsletter a

We recorded this episode because YOU, our dear sweet listeners, requested that we bring on an expert to speak on this important yet touchy subject. Holistic Therapist Melissa Fritchle returns to chat all about depression, anxiety, ADHD, SSRI's and how they all affect sex and relationships. She also shares some tips and tools on how folks can navigate these often turbulent waters, as well as how partners can support them.  Melissa Fritchle, LMFT is a Holistic Sex Therapist & award-winning Sex Educator with a private practice in Santa Cruz, CA. She is also a Certified Mindfulness Meditation teacher and is working on a second book, The Body as Guru. She is the author of The Conscious Sexual Self Workbook and writes the pleasure activism blog, Transformational Pleasure. Founder & Director of Trauma-Informed Sex Positive Therapy Training, she promotes inclusive sexual health around the world. To learn more visit  www.mf-therapy.com Other Links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our

Dixie De La Tour is a sexual folklorist, professional storyteller, podcaster, teacher, community builder and most of all, a facilitator. She is also the founder, curator & host of the award-winning and NSFW storytelling series, Bawdy Storytelling (“The Moth for Pervs” - LA Weekly, “The Original Sex and Storytelling series” - Playgirl) that’s been lauded for its transformational, relatable, empowering performances. This live stage series celebrated its 12 year Anniversary earlier this yera, and Bawdy’s groundbreaking podcast has had over 1.5 million downloads, plus it’s been acknowledged as a ‘Best Of’ Sex podcast from GQ Magazine, Marie Claire, Uproxx, Bustle and (twice!) by Esquire Magazine. In addition to story and public speaking coaching for her own series, Dixie coaches for TEDx, Women in Technology, offers custom Brand Storytelling coaching, teaches Storytelling for the Classroom (she’s taught her Master Classes to high school students, too). Ultimately, this story-loving southerner is passionate about

Once a month we are offering an ad-free bonus episode as a gift to our listeners. This episode is with a repeat guest and fellow podcaster and friend Connor Moore of The Realness Podcast. We talk about dating, orgasms, how to show up as our best, most true selves in sex and relationships, and more. Enjoy! Connor Moore is a Lifestyle Design and Dating Coach. He also leads personal development retreats and is the host of The Realness Podcast - following the motto "Authenticity Over Everything" while delivering unconventional life advice in a way that is somehow both charming and ridiculous. Check out his podcast on all podcast apps or learn more at https://gettherealness.com

What is erotic breathwork? How can it enhance our sexual experiences? And why does it all start with the anus? Tune in to learn about this and more! Recorded live from Sex Geek Summer Camp! M’kali-Hashiki (em-KAH-lee-HAH-she-kee) is a Renegade Sexual Mystic; a Tour Guide to the realm of Eros; & a Teacher of Somatic Erotic Possibilities. M’kali-Hashiki is also a Certified Sexological Bodyworker; a Certified Sound, Voice, & Music Healer; and a Certified Tantric Sacred Intimate - offering group intensives, individual sessions, instructional videos, ecourses, guided visualizations, blog posts, conversations, and live ritual events. To learn more about M’kali-Hashiki's work visit fiercepassions.com Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/shamelesssex Come to our June 29th, 2019 workshop at Diamond Adult World, Grover Beach! DiamondAdult.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/sh

Amy has been working with a Sexological Bodyworker as part of her journey in reconnecting with her body and reclaiming her sexuality. In this episode Amy's practitioner joins us to discuss what Sexological Bodywork and Tension and Trauma Release are all about, how scar tissue affects sensation and tips for the remediation process, practices to reconnect to your sensual body, as well as the importance of + how to start up your own self-pleasure practice.  We also answer a sex question: Is it okay to have more than one friend with benefits? About River: River is an SSEA Certified Somatic Sex Educator, IASHS Certified Sexological Bodyworker, and a Tension and Trauma Release Exercises® practitioner with a private practice in the San Francisco Bay Area, Ohlone Territory. Their work is dedicated to supporting the re-integration of the erotic body after trauma with scar tissue remediation, body-centered practices, and the discharging of stuck emotions and tension held in the tissues of the body. River creates a non-

What are the common reasons people stray from their partners? How common is it and how do folks rebuild relationships after infidelity? And what is the "New Monogamy" all about?  We also answer a sex question: How can I reconnect to myself and learn to relax with my partner after sexual trauma? Dr. Tammy Nelson PhD is an internationally acclaimed psychotherapist and TEDx speaker and the author of several books including, “Getting the Sex You Want,  “The New Monogamy; and her latest book "When You're the One Who Cheats."  She has been a featured expert in the NY Times, Washington Post, Wall Street Journal, CNN, Rolling Stone Magazine, TIME, and a source in Time Magazine. She writes for Huffington Post, ThriveGlobal, Medium and has a new podcast, The Trouble with Sex.  Dr. Tammy is a Board Certified Sexologist, a Certified Sex Therapist and a Certified Relationship Therapist. She can be found at drtammynelson.com   Some other links we talk about:  Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube A

Charlie Glickman returns to teach us all about the ins and outs of awesome anal sex! We also answer a sex question: I feel shame about the fact that I can only climax when I touch myself. How can I change this? Charlie Glickman PhD is a sex & relationship coach, a sexuality educator, a sexological bodyworker, and an internationally-acclaimed speaker. He’s been working in this field for over 25 years, and some of his areas of focus include sex & shame, sex-positivity, queer issues, masculinity & gender, communities of erotic affiliation, and many sexual & relationship practices. Charlie is also the co-author of The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Exploration for Men and Their Partners. Find out more about him on his website MakeSexEasy.com or on Facebook/charlie.glickman.  Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELES

Dr. Alison Ash returns to teach us about the five tenets of CHAMP quality pu$$y eating. We chat about orgasms, attunement, technique, and more. We also answer a sex question: How do I get over my jealousy about my partner looking at other women on Instagram? About our speaker: Dr. Alison Ash is a sex and intimacy coach, sexual empowerment educator, author, and founder of TurnON.love. A champion for others overcoming shame and deepening pleasure, Aly helps her clients experience the kinds of sexual interactions and romantic relationships they long for.    As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, Aly has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering sexual experiences. She also draws on her extensive training in the Hakomi method of psychotherapy as well as Somatica model of sex and intimacy coaching to support her clients to radically explore and courageously express themselves.  Aly designs workshops and offers individuals and couples coac

Laura Delarato is a writer, video maker, body image activist artist and sex educator based in NYC. Her art and essays have appeared in Travel + Leisure, Refinery29, NBC, BeautyCon, Men’s Health, Huffpost, Allure, Ravishly, Revelist, Salty Mag, The Horizontal, and Le Wand and she has spoken on the topics of body image and wellness at Decoded Future Summit, ProjectHEAL, Body Politic NYC, The Brooklyn Sex Expo, and Fusion Academy. Her work is deeply planted within body politics, fitness, sex education and plus size representation. Follow Laura on Instagram at @heylauraheyyy where she posts about body acceptance, erotic art, and wellness. To learn more visit lauradelarato.com  

In this episode we chat with author, sex coach and Sexological Bodyworker Xanet Pailet all about sexless marriages and relationships. How common is it (hint - it's more common than you may think)? What are the signs that someone may be heading towards a sexless relationship? Why is this happening? What can partners do to keep the fire burning? Xanet Pailet, best selling author of the new book, Living an Orgasmic Life, is a recovered NYC health care lawyer who lived in a sexless marriage for over two decades. After experiencing her own sexual healing and awakening in 2011, she transitioned her career into a full-time sex and intimacy educator and coach. She believes that pleasure is our birthright and is passionate about helping folks find their way back into their bodies, their desires, and their pleasure. She works with couples who are in sexless marriages and women and men who have experienced abuse and trauma. She helps them heal their wounds, release their shame, and reconnect with their desire and sexual

In this episode we chat with Sex Educator Reid Mihalko all about threesomes! How do we negotiate threesomes with potential (and current) partners? Where do we find a third? What about safety and consent? And how do we make threesomes playful and fun? We also answer a sex question: How to navigate a date night visit to a sex shop without feeling awkward. About Reid: Sex and relationship geek Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com helps adults and college students create more self-esteem, self-confidence, and greater health and accountability in their relationships and sex lives using an inspiring mixture of humor, personal stories, keen insight, and comprehensive sexual health information. In early 2018, some very brave people came forward sharing harms that Reid had caused them. Reid stepped down from teaching and initiated a restorative justice-based accountability process to address his misconduct and make amends if and where possible. The formal, year-long process along with Reid’s apology and resources were sha

Here’s a sneak peak into a new podcast for you: Purple Panties is an erotic fiction story created by New York Times best-selling author Zane. On the outside Maddox, Loren and Stephanie go against the grain when it comes to sex. But as relationships shift and physical needs change, can they keep up with the facade? Follow them on their journey as they navigate their professional and personal lives. The sun isn’t the only thing hot in Atlanta… Purple Panties is now free in your podcast app. Check it out or visit purplepantiespodcast.com

How can mamas reclaim their sensuality after kids? How can busy mamas (or all people) invite pleasure into their daily lives - in and out of the bedroom? And how can couples reignite the fire in long-term relationships?  Also, guess who's now single? Tune in to learn more! About our guest: Dana B. Myers is an award-winning product developer, entrepreneur, author, and media personality.  As Founder of Booty Parlor, Dana has changed the lives of thousands of women by inspiring them to boost their sensual self-confidence and create sexier, more satisfying relationships. Known for her frank yet empowering style, Dana helps her clients reclaim the power of their sensuality and sexual satisfaction through her coaching practice and live workshops. Her advice, and Booty Parlor’s products, have been featured by Marie Claire, Women’s Health, Parents, Redbook, Nylon, Allure, and the Wall Street Journal. Dana has appeared on ABC Nightline, Good Morning America, Access Hollywood Live, The Wendy Williams Show, and more. He

In this episode we have a playful yet informative with Disability Awareness Consultant, Cripple Content Creator and host go the Disability After Dark Podcast, Andrew Gurza. Why do people have so much fear when it comes to talking about disability (and sex)? What should listeners should know about sex and disability? What about the fun and the vulnerability around sex and disability?  We also answer the sex question: My wife loves her vibrator but rarely uses it without me. Should I encourage her? Is she missing out on something?  About Andrew: Andrew Gurza is a Disability Awareness Consultant and Cripple Content Creator whose written work has been featured in Men's Health, Daily Xtra, Gay Times UK, Huffington Post, The Advocate, Everyday Feminism, Mashable, and Out.com, and several anthologies. He has guested on a number of podcasts including Dan Savage’s Savage Love and Cameron Esposito’s Queery. He has spoken all over North America on sex, disability and what it means to be a Queer Cripple. He is also the h

What is vulva mapping and Sexological Bodywork? How can a vulva mapping session help a vulva-owner to awaken sensation and expand orgasmic potential? How does this apply to lovers/partners? Our special guest, Dolly Josette, answers this and much much more (believe us...you are probably going to want to learn all about how to get your own genital mapping session after listening to this episode).  And guess what? Dolly is offering a FREE SESSION to one of the winners of our upcoming Instagram campaign for Masturbation May. Be sure to follow us on Insta to learn more.  Dolly is also the lead organizer for the upcoming Sexological Bodyworker training in LA. To learn more visit SexbodLA.com  Oh, and if you are in the Santa Cruz, CA, are Dolly is teaching a workshop at Pure Pleasure Shop on May 15th, 2019! More about Dolly: Dolly Josette is a Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Somatic Sex Educator, & Relationship and Intimacy Coach, committed to seeing her clients relish in love, intimacy and perpetual fireworks. H

This episode features Amy’s beloved therapist, teacher, guide and mentor, Dr. Nicola Amadora. We talk all about relationship – with the self and with others – and tools for deeper, more profound connection. Nicola teaches us how to break through our protective walls as a means of tapping into more LOVE and ALIVENESS, including “getting naked without taking our cloths off”. And we talk about how it all translates to juicy sex ;) We also answer the sex question: My partner put on weight and I’m not very attracted to him these days. How can I improve my feelings for him? Dr. Nicola Amadora is an accomplished leader, therapist, speaker, writer and spiritual teacher. Her passion and gift is to support people to live, lead and relate with presence, connection and wholeheartedness in the world. For 30 years she has worked both in Europe and the USA with organizations, communities, groups, families, couples and individuals. In all her work, Dr. Amadora offers a rich banquet of life experience, high-level professional

What is kink and how do I know if I'm kinky? How do I start to explore my kink, and how do I talk about it with my partner?   We also answer a sex question: I'm a healthy 42 year old man, married to my beautiful queen, and I have a hard time getting/keeping an erection. Please help. About our guest: Mike Rozycki has been active in his local kink communities since 2005. In 2018, he and his business partner started JoyMill, a company dedicated to customized kink gear. You can sign up for their mailing list and try their beta experience at www.joymill.com. Be sure to sign up for the mailing list to get first access to discounts, new products, etc. Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Drink a glass of delicious natural wine while listening to us by visiting marginswine.com    

In this episode we dive deep into female sexual arousal with award-winning author, Wholistic Sexuality teacher and medical professional, Sheri Winston. Why have women’s body parts gone missing in history? How does female ejaculation happen on a cellular level? What are some tips for female-bodied folks who want to experience more orgasmic abundance? What about partners who want to up their pleasure skills? We also answer part 2 to last week's sex question about a cis-man with no/very low libido.  About Sheri: Sheri Winston is a celebrated sexuality teacher, award-winning author and medical professional. Sheri’s 2010 book, Women’s Anatomy of Arousal: Secret Maps to Buried Pleasure (also available on audible) won the 2010 Book of the Year award from AASECT. Sheri’s 2014 book, the visionary yet practical Succulent SexCraft: Your Hands-On Guide to Erotic Play and Practice, offers a detailed road map to supercharging your erotic life and becoming sexually whole and empowered. With its wealth of ideas, practices an