Shameless Sex

In this episode Amy chats with sex educator, coach and author Stella Harris about the G-spot, female ejaculation AKA squirting, and vulva mapping. Stella Harris is changing the way people experience their sex lives. As a certified intimacy educator and sex coach, she gives her students the tools and confidence to explore their sexuality safely and free of shame. A national and international speaker, Stella teaches everything from pleasure anatomy, to communication skills, to kink and BDSM. Stella writes a weekly sex advice column for Portland's Willamette Week newspaper, and her erotic fiction has appeared in more than a dozen anthologies. Check out her latest book, Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships, as well as her website at stellaharris.net References: OmgYes.com/shameless - $5 off Bijoux Indiscrets Horoscope line - Use code SHAMELESS for 15% off  

Ellice Apostolos - owner of Santa Cruz's premier pole dancing studio, Steel and Grace - is back to talk about the art of the erotic dance, and how we can apply it to sexy time with our lovers. This interview was recorded immediately after April and Amy took an advanced S-Factor class, so not only are they all charged up from the sensual practice, but they also get testimonials from a few participants, including Badass Boss Mentor Meghan (see info below).  About Ellice:  Ellice Apostolos empowers every woman to connect to her body's innate wisdom and pleasure so she can move through the world in​ her​ fully expressed radiance. As a certified​ S Factor instructor, Ellice offers deeply transformative trainings where what begins as a personal erotic movement practice within the studio walls can become a sustainable practice that enriches every area of life. Ellice also guides women entrepreneurs to build the life of their desires through her online programs. She empowers them to put deep self-care and pleasure at

In this episode April and Amy expose some of their own shame and sex/relationship struggles, followed by a discussion about consent and the dangers of positions of power - specifically in the Tantra community. 

Rain DeGrey is an international educator, writer, presenter, podcaster, and performer that has been writing articles and teaching classes, focusing on kink, relationships, and sex education, since 2009. After getting her start as a fetish model and Pro Domme, she was motivated to branch out into education, something she is extremely passionate about. Demystifying sexuality and presenting in a clear and humorous way are trademarks of her teaching style and she believes strongly in making sex education fun. She has taught on a wide variety of topics at Harvard University, Northwestern University, Kink.com, The Citadel, Dark Odyssey, Pure Pleasure, Stormy Leather, Folsom Fringe, The Looking Glass, KinkAcadamy, PassionateU, Mission Control, Pink Bunny, and Boundcon in Germany. Her work has been featured in such places as Playboy TV’s “69 sexiest things to do before you die”, Seattle Erotic Arts Festival, The SF Fetish Ball, Exotic Erotic, Rope::Burn, Kink-e-zine and Femina Potens. In 2017 she was named the dirtie

In this touching episode Terah Harrison, LPC, shares her trauma story for the first time on air, alongside tips and tools for finding great sex and deep connection in the aftermath. Thank you, Terah, for speaking up and sharing your vulnerability with us. Also, we answer a sex question about pegging (when a female-bodied individual tops/penetrates a male-bodied individual via a strap-on). About Terah: Terah Harrison is a Licensed Professional Counselor and hosts the podcast Make More Love Not War which has a clear mission of helping people have more sex and less fighting. She discovered the need for her podcast as she saw male clients at her private practice in Fort Worth Texas, who were struggling to understand their female partners. Most of these men were striving to be better partners but their strategies to achieve this only made things worse. Many times a simple change would improve their relationships dramatically.   With this amazing information that would benefit men and the women they love in hand Te

In this episode we answer YOUR sex questions alongside friend and guest Kristen from the high-end German sex toy company Fun Factory.  Why are some peoples turned on by golden showers?  What's the deal with clit pumps? Is oral sex legit without swallowing?  How do I slow down during sex? Why do I feel empty after sleeping with a lot of people? How do I navigate (conversations about) period sex? References:  Our online video series Fun Cups mentraul cups Miss Bi by Fun Factory OMGyes.com/shameless Lube special at Pure Pleasure: use code OCTLUBE18 for 20% off*

Join is for this fun interview with a high-end straight male escort. What is the difference between an escort and a Gigolo? Is Gigolo still PC? What does a day in the life of a high-end escort look like? How does one become a Gigolo?  About our guest: Anthony Asanti is a Washington, DC-based Straight Male Escort providing warm, sensual & professional companionship full-time to women only. A Sensual Warrior who's the world's first and only Straight Male Companion catering exclusively to women certified in Bondassage and providing it exclusively to women. To learn more visit http://anthonyasanti.com Also be be sure to check out: Our online Erotic Empowerment video series: https://www.shamelesssex.com/shop/erotic-empowerment-online-series-pre-sale Sex Ed For Parents:  https://www.purepleasureshop.com/collections/sex-ed-classes/products/10-24-18-lets-talk-about-sex-a-workshop-for-parents OMGyes.com: https://www.omgyes.com/shameless Pure Pleasure (use code SHAMELESSPP for 15% off all sex toys): https://www.

Recorded on stage during Brooklyn's Sex Expo, we chat with Lorrae from Slutty Girl Problems. We apologize if it sounds like we were yelling; we were right next to the Sybian sex machine, so it was a bit loud :) Slutty Girl Problems is for the self-identified women who embrace this empowered lifestyle. They offer a sex-positive, feminist, judgement-free zone with daily content to entertain, educate, and empower women around in all aspects of their lives. What is a slut, you might ask? A slut is empowered in her sexuality. She is confident, in control, and doesn’t let anyone define her or her sexuality. She defines herself, and makes choices that are right for her. Many people use the term “slut” to break women down and shame them for their natural sexuality. The folks at Slutty Girl Problems boldly reclaim this derogatory word as an empowering, sex-positive term – free from society’s shame and judgement. Being a slut isn’t about sleeping with everyone, or anyone at all. It’s about having the choice to expr

Join us for a quickie interview with Kimberly from Evine - a live home shopping network based out of Minneapolis. Kimberly and the people at Evine are some of the first people to promote sex toys on live television in the US. 

In this episode April and Amy share their personal stories about their threesome (and sometimes foursome+) adventures. Also, a few tips on how to navigate threesomes with more grace and ease.  Also, a sex question about how to find that third person (AKA unicorn) when introducing threesomes in a marriage. 

Why is it important to understand edges vs boundaries? How can they lead to hotter, more exciting sex? Melissa Fritchle, LMFT, is a Holistic Psychotherapist, Sex therapist, a certified clinical trauma professional, a certified Mindfulness Meditation Teacher, and the author of The Conscious Sexual Self Workbook. She currently runs a private practice in Santa Cruz, and will soon offer online courses. Learn more at mf-therapy.com Also, a sex question: my partner takes too long to orgasm, and my body gets tired during sex. What can we do to help him orgasm faster?   

Recorded from an RV (don't mind the hum of the air-conditioning in the background) at this past week's Burning Man, Amy discusses the idea of soulmates with Lisa Nicks-Balthasar and Chris Balthasar - “Soul Purpose Success” coaches, best friends, lovers, mirror soulmates, and husband and wife. Lisa and Chris walk their talk, living fully in a deep loving “Sacred Soulmates” relationship after losing their beloved first soulmates to death and divorce.  To learn more about their offerings, visit www.sacredsoulmates.com Also listen to Chris' past episode, #43 BEmpowered, as well as Lisa's episode, #45 Heart Of Manifestation 

In this episode we dive deep into the juicy topic of squirting AKA gushing AKA female ejaculation. Join us for some how to's, as well as some personal stories about our own wet 'n' wild adventures.  Also, we answer your sex question on sex in long distance relationships. 

Robert Kandell has been helping men find themselves for fourteen years. An expert in interpersonal communication and relationships, he has helped thousands of students find a more balanced, energized life with better relationships, more sex and more happiness. His coaching style is challenging, fraternal and highly rewarding and definitely not for the faint hearted, he has been described as “part football coach, part loving dad and part slightly crazed drill sergeant”. He is the host of the highly successes podcast, Tuff Love, and the author of the upcoming book, unHIDDEN, A Book for Men and Those Confused by Them. Also we answer your sex question: Being told about an STI/STD (Genital Warts) a year into the relationship  Pure Pleasure code for 20% off anal toys for month of August - AUGANAL18

Dr. Hernando Chaves holds a BA in Psychology, an MA in Marital and Family Therapy, and a Doctorate degree in Human Sexuality. He is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Clinical Sexologist, Love and Sex Coach and Professor of Psychology and Human Sexuality. Dr. Chaves is a co-sexpert educator for Penthouse Magazine's Sex Academy instructional DVD's. He specializes working with erotic minorities (BDSM, alt expression, nonmonogamy, fetishism), relationships, and sexual concerns.

Is sex work really the oldest profession? How has sexual shame shaped modern day culture from a historical perspective? And where did the term blowjob come from? Tune in for more. Plus enjoy Daniele's sexy Italian accent :) Daniele Bolelli is a writer, martial artist, university professor, and podcaster. He was born in Italy and currently lives in Los Angeles. Check out his podcasts, The Drunken Taoist and History On Fire, or visit his website: danielebolelli.com/  

Andrew was raised as the son of a minister in a Pentecostal Christian Church in New Jersey. Andrew studied Bible at the Evangelical Christian Wheaton College and obtained his Master of Divinity from Princeton Seminary. While religion was his life's passion, Andrew suffered greatly from anxiety, depression, and guilt about his sexuality. After a slow and painful process, Andrew awakened to a new spiritual experience through secular humanism, meditation, psychedelics, and sexuality. Andrew offers workshops, writings, support, and coaching that can be found at lifeafterdogma.org

Shaun is a writer and host of The Love Drive, a playful and honest podcast that looks into the broad and captivating world of modern sexuality and intimacy. He brings humor and depth to the often awkward, scary topics of the heart and the loins. This podcast is unabashedly sex-positive, bright, and alive. To learn more visit thelovedrive.com

Tantra is a form of yoga designed to enhance one’s experience of being alive. It’s a holistic spiritual system that connects the sexual and spiritual aspects of one’s self for integration, healing, joy, and power. Dee’s classes and sessions do not have an overt gsexual focus, though we talk about how these practices improve sex, along with all aspects of life. Dee says she helps people find their bliss through relaxation, mindfulness, and sensuality. Her clients know her for being playful and accepting, and deeply-spiritual while solidly down to earth. Dee Dussault is a sexuality coach, Yoga Alliance-certified yoga teacher, and the creator of Ganja Yoga, with a Harpercollins book by the same name. Since 2009, she's taught easy partner yoga, vanilla tantra, and Ganja Yoga to thousands of people across the US, Canada, and Europe.  Dee has over a decade of research and study, with an honors degree in Sexuality Studies, and an additional Sexuality Certificate, with a focus on women's sexuality. She loves inspirin

Ashley is a mother, doula, apprentice midwife and sex coach who has been helping to guide women through the transformation from maiden to mother since she became a mother in 2013. She is a tantrika who loves coaching women into their own sensual sovereignty through the path of pleasure, and is passionate about helping women reclaim their pelvic floor and core strength postpartum. You can find out more information about coaching with Ashley, taking a workshop or reading more about her work on her website at www.AshleyShakti.com