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What is audio eroticism & erotica? What is an auralism kink and is Audio Hypnosis Erotica part of this? What are the benefits of incorporating erotic content into your lifestyle, and how can erotica be incorporated into a relationship to improve sexual intimacy and emotional connection? Be sure to listen all the way through for a sexy snippet from erotic aural erotica master Lala. About our guest: Lala is the founder of Lala's Bedtime Tales, a sexual wellness and liberation brand. She is a sexuality and sexual health advocate, audio erotic podcast host, and an erotica writer. Lala started Lala's Bedtime Tales to create a safe and judgment-free space for individuals to learn about sexual health and how to feel sexually empowered in and out of the bedroom. Lala's Bedtime Tales is a sexual wellness digital platform that inspires you to take control and ownership of your sexy by mixing education with entertainment. Through Lala's Bedtime Tales, she offers erotica and romance literature, sexual health and wellness

What are some of the signs you should break up in relationships, as well as the top tips for navigating them with as much success and ease as possible? What if you know you should break up but feel like you can’t do it? How can people cope with a breakup - especially when they are feeling so much sadness, loss, anger and/or grief? Is "conscious uncoupling" or closure conversations available to everyone? And what can breakups teach us as valuable tools in moving forward? Repeat guest Dr. Aly answers all this and more. About our guest: Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering sexual experiences. Dr. Aly is champion for others overcoming shame and deepening pleasure and helps her clients experience pleasurable sexual interactions and nourishing ro

What exactly is Dirty Talk? What are the benefits using it to spice up sex? What are some tips for folks who want to up their dirty talk game, and how can people who are desiring to engage in more Dirty Talk talk ask for this from their partner? Sexpert Lola Kat teaches all of this, and even shares a reading in her sensual voice. About our guest: Lola Kat Yonder is a Sex Positive - Body Positivity Advocate & Sensual Storyteller: She remarks she grew up in the adult industry, 13+ years & counting: including 8 years as a sensual product consultant & small biz marketing director, commercial hostess, & content creator for luxury adult retail; along with 5+ years of experience in sensual voice performance. Colleagues have dubbed her the Wordsmith & the Vanna White of Vibrators.   In the past, Lola performed 16 years as a classically-trained Church vocalist, as well as contributed 6+ years in senior healthcare. She has evolved from her conservative roots by embracing sexual openness emphasizing intimate education.

What is the definition of a Cougar? Why do people have such a hard time with female led age gap relationships, when male led age gaps are seen as no big deal? What is so appealing about older women to younger men, how can older women stop second-guessing their desirability, and what are some tips and tricks to help fuel women’s sexual response at any age? Repeat guest Dr. Sarah Hill answers all this and so much more. About our guest: Dr. Sarah Hill is an award-winning research psychologist and professor with expertise in women, health, and sexual psychology. Her work has been written about in outlets like the New York Times, the Economist, and The Guardian, and you can see her featured in the Netflix documentary, The Principles of Pleasure. Most recently, Dr. Hill has been using her expertise as a consultant with Cougar Life, a dating website for those seeking female-led age gap relationships. To learn more go to sarahehill.com Follow us on Tik Tok @shamelesssexpodcast! We just lost out own account and now ha

What is a fetish, and how can people work with their fetishes in a safe, pleasurable way? What does it mean to be “master fetish trainers”? And how can we approach porn, sex toys, and our consumption of the erotic industry with more awareness, sex-positivity and inclusivity? Master Fetish Trainers Jet Setting Jasmine and King Noire share this and so much more. About our guests: Jet Setting Jasmine is a licensed clinical Psychotherapist with a strong emphasis on Intimacy Post Injury and Intimacy Post Illness. She is the owner and lead therapist of full-service therapy practice, Blue Pearl Therapy. Jasmine is an international sex educator and Master Fetish Trainer. King Noire is an accomplished writer, artist, MC and global activist using the proceeds of his album ‘Music Is My Weapon’ to build a school, fresh water well and medical clinic in Guinea Bissau, West Africa. He has used his position as an adult performer and Master Fetish Trainer to develop an ethically sound molded toy in partnership with Lust Art;

Sex and relationship experts Alicia and Erwan Davon join us once again to talk about sex positions and the art of orgasmic, pleasurable penetration. Learn why it's helpful allow the vulva owner (or any receiving orifice for that matter) to move towards the giver to build up desire. Also why there's a time and place for “pushing it real good" (shout out to Salt 'n' Pepper), top tips for mind-blowing penetrative sex, how to continue play without a hard cock, and so much more. About our guests: Erwan and Alicia Davon have become the go- to experts for those seeking a higher level of relationship support. Erwan is the founder, senior teacher and president of San Francisco based The Davon Method. Together with Alicia, who has a Masters in Psychology and training as a therapist, they specialize in supporting singles in getting into passionate and successful relationships, and helping couples take their relationships to new heights of romance and intimacy. Based in the SF Bay Area, Erwan and Alicia provide a high en

The title tells it all, but this episode is all about our current top sex toy recommendations when it comes to anything anal including pegging products, plugs, beads, anal pleasure and safety, and positions. Happy Anal August and on to Shameless Sextember! Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at CALM.COM/Shameless Boost up that immune system and get a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D, plus 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase of Athletic Greens at athleticgreens.com/SHAMELESSSEX Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What is the pelvic floor about and how is it related to sexual pleasure (and orgasms!)? Why is the idea of having a tighter pussy generally BS? How can people heal or improve their pelvic floors? And what's the truth about "popping cherries" (AKA first time penetration)? About our guest: Jenny Putt is a pelvic floor physical therapist and sex educator among many other letters that go after her name. She believes talking about sex, poop, pee and genitals shouldn’t be deemed awkward or inappropriate and that the world would be a better place if people were more connected to their pelvic floor and had access to more pleasure.  She specializes in the pelvic floor health of perinatal individuals with in-person and virtual services across the continuum of preconception through pregnancy, delivery and postpartum recovery. To learn more visit www.jennyputtpt.com or checkout her IG at @jennyputtpt Upcoming events: Join us in Santa Cruz in getting your booty's kicked at Carina Reid's Ignite Change event on September 1

In this fun in-person interview we chat with Alexis Lauren Ware all about becoming WET - not necessarily the way Cardi B and Megan Thee Stallion describe it, but more so about how we can (re)connect with our genitals, “reclaim” our wetness and turn-on, and live a life of feeling WET both in and out of the bedroom. I mean, who doesn't want that? We cure to check out Alexis' live online 6-week group course (guess what it's called...WET!) as it's limited to only 20 people at sovereign-university.com/wet About our guest: Alexis Ware, L.Ac., founder of Sovereign University, is an energy expert and life strategist who specializes in restructuring subconscious belief systems to amplify power in service to love, connection, creative expression and deeper enjoyment of life, sex and relationships. Alexis is a licensed acupuncturist, Kundalini Yoga teacher, Human Design enthusiast, ThetaHealing® expert/instructor of 12+ years and a sex, desire & intimacy coach. Alexis Ware, L.Ac., founder of Sovereign University, is an

We've all heard about the power of transcendent and cervical orgasms (AKA the A-Spot), but how are they obtained? What do they feel like, why are they life-changing, and what are the tips and tricks for having more powerful, transcendent internal orgasms? About our guests: Dr. Willow Brown & Leah Piper bring a wealth of wisdom through their combined 40 years of expertise in human sexuality, health, and spiritual growth. Leah is a Tantric Sex Master Coach and Positive Psychology Facilitator while Dr. Willow is a Chinese & Functional Medicine Doctor, and Taoist Sexology Teacher. When these two devotees of love come together they blend and weave the ancient teachings of Tao and Tantra for the modern lover with humor, insight and wisdom. To learn more visit sexreimagined.com. Also visit: Drwillowbrown.com moreloveworks.com Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at CALM.COM/Shameless Boost up that immune system and get a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D, plus 5

In this playful episode we interview Psychotherapist Rachel Wright, MA, LMFT all about flirting, in-person and online dating, relationships and casual sex. Whether you are single, non-monogamous, or want to learn how to navigate the dating field, this episode has plenty of gems to offer you. About our guest: Psychotherapist Rachel Wright, MA, LMFT (she/her) is recognized as one of the freshest voices on modern relationships, mental health, and sex. She is an experienced speaker, group facilitator, educator, therapist, coach, and on-camera mental health and relationship expert. With a Master’s Degree in clinical psychology, Rachel Wright has worked with thousands of humans worldwide, helping them scream less and screw more. She has brought her message to stages across the globe, was SHAPE Magazine’s Sex + Relationships Coach, and created the virtual workshop series What You Wish You Learned in School: Sex Ed and is currently one of mindbodygreen’s article review experts. She also recently did a show at Green R

It's almost one of our favorite months - Anal August! And to celebrate we are interviewing repeat guest and sex expert Kenneth Play all about anal sex. Kenneth shares his top tips and "hacks" for making anal sex more fun, relaxing, pleasurable, and even orgasmic. You don't want to miss this one. And be sure to check out our YouTube Channel to get a visual of some of the techniques he shares, as well as our Instagram for short clips from this episode. About our guest: Kenneth Play is an international expert on female pleasure who was named the World’s Greatest Sex Hacker by GQ & Men’s Health. Kenneth has been featured by more than 100 media outlets including The New York Times, Nightline, Cosmo, Playboy, Vice, and Huffington Post. Kenneth is also the author of one of our favorite books, “Beyond Satisfied: A Sex Hacker’s Guide to Endless Orgasms, Mind-Blowing Connection, and Lasting Confidence”. To learn more visit kennethplay.com  Other links: Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dip

While we love Masturbation May, April decided it's time to start celebrating Jerk-Off July. In this episode we discuss why it's good for you, our own experiences with masturbation, and tips and tool to up your self-pleasure game. Other links: To learn more about microdosing THC go to Microdose.com and use code Shameless to get free shipping & 30% off your first order Boost up that immune system and get a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D, plus 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase of Athletic Greens at athleticgreens.com/SHAMELESSSEX Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

How does sexual confidence for penis owners show up in sex and enhance the way they tend to their lovers, specifically ones with pussies? Why do so many men feel like they need to push their sexuality down in order to be a “safe person”? How can they find their sexual power in a safe way? What can they do to uncover parts of their sexuality they’ve been burying and how can they integrate them? And how can penis owner’s learn how to have more full-bodied orgasms? About our guest: Fabienne is a California based Sex and Intimacy Coach who specializes in helping men and other penis-owners develop sexual mastery, offering them the perspective and insight of a well-studied woman with a pussy. She guides people to use their sexual energy with integrity and intention to get more in touch and in love with their authentic selves and sexual expression. Fabienne loves to create, explore, and play with the form she has arrived in. Her mission is to be a loving witness to each person's strange, creative, beautiful selves,

What are the attachment styles and how do they impact relationships in general, especially non-monogamy? How do people know if they are non-monogamous? What’s the difference between fantasy and innate needs or desires? How do people’s unresolved attachment injuries get triggered within non-monogamy and how can they work with this once it’s triggered? What are some tools, and do they also apply to monogamous relationships? Lastly, what are some top tips for navigating both monogamous and non-monogamous relationships? About our guest: Kate Loree, LMFT, is a sex-positive licensed marriage and family therapist with a specialty in non-monogamous, kink, LGBTQ, and sex worker communities and the author of Open Deeply: A Guide to Building Conscious, Compassionate Open Relationships. In addition to her master’s in marriage and family therapy, she also has an MBA and is a registered art therapist (ATR). She is an EDSE certified sex educator and an EMDR certified therapist with additional training in the Trauma Resilien

In this episode we talk all about masturbation AKA 'batin, why it's beneficial to have a masturbation practice and how to develop one, and ways your solo-sex can also lead to more pleasurable and connected sex with partners. About our guest: As a sex and relationship facilitator, Mike creates transformational group experiences to support people in their journey of sex, intimacy, and relationship. Mike is kinky, queer, and poly, and they live in an intentional community in Seattle called Confluence that serves as a practice ground for personal and relational growth. Mike loves offering free insights about sexuality, connection, and personal growth on their website mikemantell.com Other links: Get affordable online therapy now from the privacy of your own home + 10% off your first month when you go to betterhelp.com/shamelesssex Get $10 off your order of $50 or more on our favorite mouth-gasmic treats at milkbarstore.com/Shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite l

In this playful episode we talk all about what most doctors call erectile or sexual dysfunction (ED), but we prefer the term erectile control issues, and you will learn all about why we reframe it this way in this episode. Dr. Dubin also explains the statistics on erectile issues, his research with porn performers and the correlation between porn and erectile control, tips for working around this, as well as whether or not blue balls are a real thing. About our guest: Dr. Justin Dubin grew up in Wayne NJ and attended Johns Hopkins University for undergraduate school. He completed medical school at Rutgers Robert Wood Johnson and his urology residency training at the University of Miami. Currently, Dr. Dubin is completing his fellowship in Male Infertility and Sexual Medicine at Northwestern University and will be starting up as the Director of Men’s Health at Memorial Health Systems in Hollywood Florida. Dr. Dubin is passionate about men’s health and education with the goal of improving both the lives of men

Layla Martin joins us once again to take back the word slut and own it as an empowering tool for becoming the ultimate sexy badass that is uniquely you in the bedroom. Whether you want to learn to worship a slut or goddess, or you want to dive deeper into that powerful part of you, Layla has plenty of juicy tips and tricks you won't want to miss. About our guest: Layla Martin is a visionary rebel who teaches on sexuality, relationships, and self-love to people across the globe. Her devoted study of Tantra for 18+ years along with her sexuality studies at Stanford University have informed her unique teaching process and the creation of her proprietary VITA™ Methodology. Her programs have taught over 12,500 women, men, and non-binary people her method of using breath, sound, movement, meditation, and energy awareness to awaken their sexuality and reclaim their power and worthiness. She is a thought leader who combines mystical practices with the most up-to-date scientific approaches to transformation to enable

In this episode we interview award-winning adult model, performer, sex educator and disability advocate GoAskAlex all about her experience in the adult film/porn industry. Alex got her start in 2014, and then a few years into her career she had a life-changing surgery resulting in a permanent disability. Alex shares her journey towards self-love and acceptance, as what it's like as she continues to work in adult film. More about our guest: GoAskAlex is an adult model, onscreen performer and sex educator with the distinction of being the industry’s first-ever ostomate since receiving a life-changing surgery in 2019: “my small intestine was diverted out through my abdomen, and I now wear a permanent medical device.” The auburn-haired British Columbia, Canada native - who launched her adult career in 2014 as a webcam model and online companion - has since taken the opportunity to use her high-profile platform to advocate for disabled and underrepresented bodies in adult media. GoAskAlex currently sits atop the 1

What does being a sub mean, and how does this show up in sex? What if someone who identifies as a sub and wants their partner to be more dominant in the bedroom, how can they approach this? How can submissive folks stay in their identity or role while still initiating sex with their partners? Master teacher and return guest Orpheus Black addresses all this and so much more. Be sure to checkout Orpheus's upcoming 3 day workshop extravaganza on June 25, July 2, July 9. It is a hybrid class to be held in LA and streamed on Zoom. Plus you get 20% off with code Shameless1. Sign up here or visit his website at orpheusblack.com Also, if you want to join our free online Shameless Sex Discord community, sign up here: discord.gg/nvXqTEcBTg About our guest: Orpheus aims to propel the intellectual and sensual evolution of masculinity both by challenging men to reconnect with its roots and by inviting them to embrace manhood in its fullness, the way strong modern men wish it to be. In this role, he shares insights, offers