On The Brighter Side

Are you ready to supercharge your relationship in 2024?In this episode, I'm sharing a game-changing lesson from my own experiences in 2023 that I'm carrying forward to make this year the best yet! After examining the last year to understand what worked and what didn't, and embracing the lessons learned from challenging moments, I'm sharing with you a practice that will help ALL couples build more trust and intimacy this year. I'm revealing the key habits that keep couples thriving, including the essential practice of regular date nights. Click HERE to get my list of 102 creative winter date night ideas to make prioritizing time with your partner even easier.

Discover the secrets to maintaining both a successful business and a thriving marriage with Couplepreneurs founders Kyle and Ariel Tresch. On the heels of National Divorce Day, we're talking about how to foster unity, respect differences, and collaborate effectively to create a legacy of love and achievement.We discuss maintaining a clear and heartfelt dialogue with your significant other amidst the demands of entrepreneurship.  And, we cover creating a sanctuary at home, where you can transition into your most authentic selves, fostering a supportive and understanding environment.Please accept our invitation to the 2nd Annual Couplepreneur Live event, a space designed to ignite growth and magic for entrepreneurial couples. Don't miss out on this chance to transform not just your business, but the very fabric of your relationship. Learn more here --> https://www.kyleandariel.com/cpliveLearn more about our community for committed couples who want to elevate their relational skillsets and get weekl

Ever feel like your happiness is being held hostage to someone else's behavior? You're about to discover how to liberate it. Today's episode touches on 3 disempowering thought patterns that are making you miserable and how to break them so you can experience more joy and intimacy.1. The 'if-then' cycle, that pesky thought pattern that tricks us into believing our joy depends on our partners' actions. 2. Say goodbye to the unnoticed sacrifices of the martyr mentality, as we explore strategies to voice your needs and desires without the silent suffering. 3. Stop saying there's no time or energy for connection with your partner.This episode isn't just about avoiding the common pitfalls—it's a treasure trove of advice for those ready to rekindle the flame and choose love, every single day.Download 102 Winter Date Night Ideas to help you create fun and seasonal dates even in the busiest seasons --> https://monicatanner.com/winterdatesCheck out the exclusive community

Do the holidays feel more like chaos than coziness? During the festive rush, do you feel the intimacy with your spouse dwindling? I'm here to guide you how to maintain that spark during the busiest time of the year. This episode is full of easy and quick ways to fan the flames of intimacy, with creative date night ideas and meaningful ways to show your spouse they're your top priority.Don't let the holiday hustle cause you to lose sight of the one who matters the most – your partner. Amid the excitement of creating magic for the little ones and juggling a myriad of emotions, your bond with your spouse can often be neglected.  I'm sharing tips on how to keep your date nights alive (even at home), how to express your love and appreciation for your spouse, and of course, the importance of planning some sexy time amidst the decorations and gift-wrapping.Download 102 Winter Date Night Ideas to help you create fun and seasonal dates even in the busiest seasons --> https://monicatanner.com/win

Today, we are talking about the law of sacred spaces.How can we delineate physically, mentally and emotionally the different hats we wear in our work life and personal life?You are not just an entrepreneur/employee or only a spouse – you are both, and your roles deserve equal attention. The harmony between business success and personal life fulfillment often sets the foundation for sustainable growth in both areas. Implementation: Set clear, actionable goals for your business and family. Develop a daily schedule where you allocate specific hours to your business, your family, and self-care. Have regular check-ins with your spouse to discuss each other's roles and challenges. Learn to delegate tasks both in business and at home. If you would like additional help with this or any other concept that strengthens your marriage and sets you up for success, consider checking out the Passionate Marriage Club here --> https://monicatanner.com/club.

Ready to set yourself up for success in 2024? Bart and Sunny Miller have designed an enviable life together, and they're here to share their strategies on finishing your year on a high and laying the foundations for an even brighter new year. They break down their family life, businesses and how they have crafted their life together, underpinning everything with a want-want relationship.Bart and Sunny walk us through the art of managing business and marriage roles to keep both your work and love life flourishing. We also discuss the evolution of marriage, challenging traditional norms, and the importance of communication and setting mutual goals. From understanding your partner's love language to setting boundaries and revisiting roles and expectations, they share their wisdom for couples juggling personal and professional lives together.But, we don't stop there! Bart and Sunny also share invaluable insights into the dynamics of communication, especially concerning intimacy and sex. We explore

Are you tired of feeling frustrated because your partner doesn't seem to know what you want in your relationship? What if I told you that you have the power to change this dynamic and get more of what you desire? Communication and collaboration are the cornerstones of any successful relationship. But what does effective communication look like? But how do you go from feeling unheard to creating a culture where both you and your partner are getting more of what you desire? In this episode, I'll walk you through my 3-step framework for how you can get your partner's attention, make a specific and behavioral request, and encourage their progress, transforming your relationship in the process. We'll explore the secrets to getting more of what you want in your relationship.To go even deeper into these strategies, I'm hosting the Become the Hero Challenge and the Wise Wife Challenge starting on Monday, December 5th. Register for these challenges and join us for FREE.Husbands --> https://

Ever struggle to get out of your cozy, warm bed on a cold morning? Trust me, I've been there too. But, what if I taught you a super simple hack to add to gratitude that will not only make it bearable but also transform your personal life and relationships? This is what we're exploring today! Through personal stories, I'll share how this simple change has made an impact in my own life. As we approach Thanksgiving, it's the perfect time to reflect on the profound effects of gratitude. The simple act of giving thanks can have a ripple effect on our lives and relationships. From gym routines to supporting friends and family, I'll share practical tips on how gratitude can become a natural part of our day to day lives. Let's embark on this journey together, and uncover the power of supercharging your gratitude with this little trick!We also have an exciting announcement: the Wise Wives Challenge and Become the Hero Husband Challenge are coming up on December 4th, promising to activate

Picture this: you're sailing through the holiday season, fully present, stress-free, and basking in joy. Sounds dreamy, doesn't it? I'm here to tell you it's achievable! This episode is jam-packed with practical, actionable strategies for enjoying a truly joyful holiday season, instead of being lost in overwhelm. We talk about setting an intention for the season, being present, planning ahead, and filtering activities to engage in only those that are truly meaningful. Sounds good?I'm sharing how to maximize holiday traditions while reducing stress. Navigating the often chaotic holiday schedules and finances can be daunting, but with the right approach, they can serve us rather than drain us. To sum it all I'm, I'm giving you 3 tangible tools to feel more peaceful and connected no matter what is actually happening around you this holiday season.If you haven't already, be sure to take my FREE 3-minute intimacy level quiz to find out what level of intimacy you have in your

Ready to shake up the way we teach our kids about money? Join me as I sit down with Scott Donnell, best-selling author and host of the Smart Money Parenting podcast, putting the spotlight on financial literacy for the younger generation. Scott is on a mission to empower 50 million children and parents with financial competence through Gravy Stack, a gamified bank account for kids and teens. We're not just talking piggy banks and pocket money here; we're breaking down the poverty mindset and taking responsibility for our kids' financial education.It's time to rethink the way we approach teaching financial skills to our children. For the past decade, Scott has been leading the charge, using platforms like business fairs and Grapestack to impart financial literacy basics to families. We dive into the mechanics of his home economy system, built around the three E’s: expectations, expenses, and extra pay. This isn't just about counting coins; it's about teaching children to make sound

What if your relationship could be the secret to a booming business? In a fascinating chat with the sensational duo, Jen Gottlieb and Chris Winfield, I'm uncovering the secret to BE SEEN. This extraordinary couple, not only share a beautiful love story but also a multiple eight-figure business. Their journey, marked by challenges and victories, is a testimony to what a supportive partnership can achieve. This episode is a special one as it also features the launch of Jen's new book, BE SEEN, a must-read for anyone seeking to enhance their visibility in business and relationships. Our conversation goes beyond business success and delves into the dynamic personal life of Jen and Chris. We talk communication, accountability, vulnerability, and juggling the demands of work and play. As mentors, they have made a significant impact on many entrepreneurs' lives, and their approach provides a unique roadmap for those seeking harmony in their relationships. Discover how they maintain their energy levels

You know those moments when your heart is pulsing, your palms are sweaty, and your thoughts are racing a hundred miles a minute? That's emotion at its rawest and most powerful, and today, we're turning the tables on how we view these intense feelings. Instead of seeing them as destructive forces, we're chatting with life coach Jill Freestone about how to harness these big emotions to strengthen family bonds and deepen our relationships. Jill helps us explore the concept of emotional safety in our relationships - that crucial foundation that enables true vulnerability and connection. She shares a poignant family example, shedding light on how unchecked emotions can lead to a disconnect. We talk about strategies for establishing emotional safety, from learning to communicate effectively to being fully present for intimate conversations. We also discuss self-regulation, and how managing our own emotional states can create a nurturing environment for connection.Jill addresses how to teach emotional

Picture this. You’re in your 40s, married to the love of your life, and one day you decide to help an orphanage in Kenya. This is where we find our guests, Celeste and Don Mergens, founders of Days for Girls, a global award-winning organization championing women's health and menstrual equity. But how does one go from charity work in Africa to transforming lives in over 145 countries? This episode is all about that journey, their 40-year long marriage, and how the two are intertwined.Have you ever wondered how long-lasting relationships survive the test of time? Hear Celeste and Don's heartwarming love story as they share glimpses of their vibrant life together, full of surprises, acts of kindness, and a shared mission that fuels their bond. The Mergens' secret? A shared faith and commitment to their mission. Their inspiring journey resonates with the essence of a successful partnership, often likened to a team sport that requires risk, reward, and mutual understanding.Join us as we travel throu

Are you ready to unlock the power of sexual intimacy to bond you together? This episode is filled with personal stories, hard-learned lessons, and practical advice drawn from my own experiences. Discover how vulnerability can actually be the most authentic expression of love and connection. We'll also discuss how practicing sexual intimacy can have a profound ripple effect, blessing your children and family for generations to come.Being tired should never be an excuse to put off intimacy! I'm challenging this mindset and emphasizing the need to make time for your relationship, even when exhaustion hits.  As a gift for listening to this episode, I'm offering you a FREE download called 13 Alternate Times to Make Love When You're Not Exhausted Right Before Bed --> https://secretsofhappilyeverafter.com/13timestoconnectIf your connection isn't as strong as you'd like it to be, don't procrastinate seeking help any longer. Find ways to work with me at: https://monicatanner.com.

What if in just a few days time, you could unlock the power of intimacy and connection in your marriage? In this week's episode, I'm thrilled to have Tony and Alisa DeLorenzo from ONE Extraordinary Marriage, sharing their wisdom and experiences. They've spent over a decade running a podcast, learning invaluable lessons, and using those insights to save their marriage and thousands of others from the brink of divorce. We're discussing their six pillars of intimacy and how these can serve as a roadmap for couples looking to refocus, take action, and experience success in their relationships.We're also talking about our newest project - the Unlock the Power of Intimacy Summit. We're bringing together an incredible group of experts, each with a unique skill set and a shared passion for enriching marriages. This summit is designed to equip couples with knowledge and action steps to foster stronger, more intimate relationships.  Join us on this journey, and let's create a marriage

Are you ready to unlock the secrets of a fulfilling marriage? Do you want to experience the kind of intimacy that brings joy, connection, and passion into all your relationships? My own journey towards building this intimacy was filled with challenges, hard times, and mistakes. Yet, with understanding, commitment, effort, resilience, and stamina, I discovered the essence of a truly intimate relationship.In this episode, I'm talking about some of my personal breakthrough moments and the secret project I promised to share with you this week! Are you ready your own breakthrough moment?Drumroll, please.... it's called the Unlock the Power of Intimacy Summit, where I called 30+ of my favorite authors, speakers, coaches and therapists to collaborate on an incredible event for the purpose of strengthening marriages intimately.Prepare to be swept off your feet as we share our personal experiences, valuable insights, and help you create your very own, personalized marriage manual. Check out the full line-up

In today's episode, we explore communication, understanding your partner, and fostering mutual spiritual, physical, sexual, and recreational intimacy. It's not just about theory, but it's packed with practical steps including incoorporating daily connections into your routine and the secrets behind creating memorable date nights. Imagine dedicating just 20 minutes per day and three hours each week to yield a deeper connection with your partner.  I've also create and cheat sheet with 51 insightful questions to help you explore your partner's inner world.  You can download this resource here --> https://secretsofhappilyeverafter.com/51questionsWith this episode, you'll walk away with a toolkit to supercharge the emotional intimacy your marriage, which leads to increasing all the other types of intimacy. Don't miss this opportunity to enrich your relationship.

Ever wondered about the secret weapon for a long-lasting, fulfilling marriage? It's simpler than you think, yet, powerful enough to transform your relationship. In this  episode, I will guide you through a revolutionary approach to cultivate deep connection and intimacy in your marriage. Let's unravel the natural progression of a marriage, from the all-consuming initial attraction to the mundane reality of everyday life. Together, we'll delve into the 'magnetic marriage blueprint' and the three transformative laws that shape it. Join me to learn how you can rewrite the narrative of your marriage, and see your spouse through a brand-new lens of love and appreciation. No magic potions, no impossible demands - just the power of thought and the beauty of love. It's time to transform your marriage into an intimate, magnetic partnership.Husbands, if you are ready for more attention, affection and appreciation from your number one fan, be sure to join me for the Offensive Playbook Chall

This week, I'm joined by Mike Frazier from the Stronger Men, Stronger Marriages podcast to talk about how to woo your wife, going beyond the physical and diving deep into the emotional and mental.We tear apart the popular concept of "Happy Wife, Happy Life," and bring you a fresh, healthier outlook. You can be an attractive man to your wife, not only by helping her "close down the tabs" of her day but also by fostering trust, empathy, and understanding. We also discuss how celebrating your successes together can nurture intimacy and connection, transforming your relationship into a more meaningful bond.For all those high-achieving Christian men out there, we've got some golden nuggets for you. We share how to take your relationship to the next level with a love-focused mindset, going beyond the physical aspects of a relationship and investing in the emotional and mental facets. Finally, we unfold the essence of creating a "happily ever after" marriage, stressing the imp

Are you ready to revolutionize your approach to parenting? This week, I'm sitting down with Sapna Rad to unpack the secrets of conscious parenting. We delve into how to maintain a strong connection with your children amidst the busyness of life, and the transformative shift from 'yelling' to 'zenning'. Sapna offers a wealth of insight into understanding the nuances between conscious and controlling parenting and shares practical advice on navigating the early stages of parenthood as well as connecting with teenagers.Sapna shares stories about her own parenting journey, reminding us that expertise does not mean perfection. She leans into the comforting truth that the real value lies in having the right tools and strategies. We discuss conscious parenting and how to effectively work with your partner to acheive it. Sapna's expertise also shines a light on how fostering strong bonds with our children can enrich the parenting experience. This conversation is a must-listen for anyone