Divorce Conversations For Women

Rhonda sits down with Life and Divorce Coach, Meagan Norris. They discuss:   Mindset around money - what and how you think about money matters! The lies we tell ourselves and how to combat them with truth. Divorce is an opportunity to live a life bigger than you imagined. 4 buckets to look at when making decisions. Do not give in to fatigue - be your own CEO.   This episode is packed with practical things you can start today and will empower you to move forward! About today’s guest:   Meagan Norris is a Certified Life and Divorce Coach offering one on one support and group coaching to help you breakthrough and transformation you’re looking for.   When Meagan’s marriage ended after 13 years, she became the CEO of her divorce and created a life so good it didn’t make sense. She can help you do the same.   Connect with Meagan:   Website   Follow her on Instagram Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, CEO of The Women’s Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocat

Rhonda sits down with Patty Jackson, Founder of Clear Inner Focus Mindset Coaching to talk about disrupting the conversation we have with our spouse and more importantly, with ourselves. Here is what you can look forward to as you listen:   How can you disassemble the landmines around you 4 things you CAN control Why you need to forgive yourself and how that helps you change your perspective About today’s guest: Patty Jackson, Founder, Clear Inner Focus Mindset Coaching, has seen people divorce and move on in peace. She has seen others divorce and continue to struggle with their ex-spouse, and still others who remarry the same spouse and divorce again.   Patty helps her clients gain peace of mind today and build respectful relationships.  Her conversation is supported by Constructive Conversations, a short book with 10 Guidelines to Resolve Conflict & Drive Results At Work & Home.   Connect with Patty:   Website: www.clearinnerfocus.com   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/livinglifeunstuck

With the holidays fast approaching, you may feel more tempted to turn to alcohol as a stress reliever as you navigate through your divorce. Our guest today, Alcohol-Free Life Coach, Beth Purcell is here to share that there is a different way! Beth and Rhonda discuss:   Beliefs around alcohol and how to change your mindset Challenge yourself to do a reset for clarity Keep your own side of the street clean There is no shame in asking for help! About today’s guest:   Beth is a certified This Naked Mind (Alcohol-Free) and Integrative Nutrition Health Coach, as well as a twice-divorced co parenting mom, yogi, and lifelong learner. Beth’s decades’-long, near daily use of alcohol felt completely out of alignment with her livelihood in the wellness sector and with her personal values. She felt like a fraud, but was fearful that giving up drinking would prove too difficult, or would doom her to a life of less fun & constant feelings of deprivation. Instead, she found that letting go of alcohol was not

Are you going through divorce and you or your spouse own a business? Listen in!    Rhonda talks with Business Valuation Expert, Henry Kaskov about valuing your business. What should you consider as you approach this process?    They discuss:   Who needs a Business Valuation? Discovery Process (learn what DAM is!) Hire a licensed, certified neutral appraiser in the divorce space Ask the right questions How does “good will” affect the outcome? Expert testimony in court About today’s guest:   Henry Kaskov of Kaskov Valuations has over 15 years of extensive experience in performing business valuations for succession and transition planning, mergers & acquisitions, and marital dissolution.   His valuations have also been used for estate and gift tax planning and reporting, ESOPs, corporate dissolution and disputes, commercial economic damages and general financial consulting for clients across the U.S. and around the world.   Henry’s Website: Kaskov Valuations LinkedIn: Henry Kaskov Your hos

Our special guest today is CEO and Co-Founder of HerMoney, Jean Chatzky! Rhonda and Jean walk through how to step out in confidence when it comes to your money.    Learn your money - it can be managed! Value based spending - what is important to you? Girl Math! Why wisdom over too much information is will get you where you want to be About today’s guest:  Jean Chatzky is the founder and CEO of HerMoney.com and the coaching programs FinanceFixx and InvestingFixx.    She is the host of the podcast HerMoney With Jean Chatzky and the co-host of the national radio show Everyday Wealth. The Financial Ambassador for AARP, she was the Financial Editor for NBC Today for 25 years. Jean is an award-winning journalist and broadcaster, a New York Times and Wall Street Journal best-selling author, and a fierce advocate for financial literacy. Her latest books are Women with Money: The Judgment-Free Guide to Creating the Joyful, Less Stressed, Purposeful (and Yes, Rich) Life You Deserve and How To Money, a gui

We have some exciting news and a special announcement! Join Rhonda as she outlines her thought process about the new name for the podcast, and why we’re making this small but powerful shift.    Rhonda covers:   The origin story of the podcast Client stories How she can help you if you’re contemplating or moving through the divorce process Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, Founder & CEO of The Women’s Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.    For Rhonda and her company, the Women’s Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn’t just about running the numbers. It’s about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate abou

Licensed Home Appraiser, Rachel Pader sits down with Rhonda to talk about  the importance of home appraisal. Knowing your home is key! A few things they discuss:   Why it’s important to have a good appraiser Tips on what you should look for Top 3 items to consider when having your home appraised About today’s guest:   Rachel had been a home appraiser for 5 years and has made it her  goal to shorten the gap between realtors and appraisers. She helps educate as many people as possible on the value of their homes and helps facilitate the growth of women through conversations, connections, community and education.   Connect with Rachel:   TAC Appraisals   Facebook   Instagram Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CFEI, CDFA®, CEO of The Women’s Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be asse

Rhonda sits down with former high school teacher turned high conflict divorce coach and advocate, Lisa Johnson. Lisa and Rhonda discuss coercive control, how laws are changing across the country, and ways you can navigate through the long and arduous process. Topics include:   Find community: gather your team, both personal and professional Timeline - it’s a marathon: ways to stay in it for the long haul Enjoy your life (Yes, really!) About today’s guest:    Lisa Johnson is the co-founder of Been There Got Out, a high conflict divorce coach and certified domestic violence advocate who has successfully represented herself through scores of court appearances. Her case, published in the Connecticut Law Journal, is being used as legal precedent. Her live testimony helped pass Jennifers’ Law in Connecticut, the third state in America to expand its legal definition of domestic violence to include “coercive control.”    She and her partner, Chris, the male half of Been There Got Out, coach people in high-c

Rhonda sits down with Tracy Malone, Founder of Narcissist Abuse Support. They discuss specific ways you can know if you’re being gaslit and how to handle narcissistic behavior.    What is gaslighting? Specific questions to ask your attorney Strategies for dealing with narcissistic behavior Ways to build your team who will empower you About today’s guest:    My name is Tracy Malone and I am a surTHRIVER of narcissistic abuse. I created this website in 2015 when I learned that I had been a victim of narcissistic abuse my entire life. I thought my family was just crazy! I had a narcissistic mother, siblings, aunt, husband, in-laws, friends, and a boyfriend. My healing journey has been intense and life-changing, to say the least, and now I help others by coaching men and women from all walks of life to understand what happened to them.  Check out her journal: My Story of Narcissistic Abuse Journal https://narcissistabusesupport.com/my-story-of-narcissistic-abuse-journal/ Connect with Tracy: Website:

Barbara Majeski, Founder of The MORE Life Collective, TV Personality, and Lifestyle Expert joins Rhonda for a fun and important conversation! They cover a lot today - you’ll want to take notes!  Topics discussed: Women’s tolerance level is high - but there is a limit Focus on YOUR own journey You can’t shortcut the process It’s never too late to reinvent yourself About today’s guest:    Barbara is a TV personality that loves sharing her tips and tricks. She has frequently appeared on The TODAY Show, Good Day NY, New York Live, and the Nick Cannon Show. Barbara is also a mother of three and resides in Princeton, New Jersey.   In 2015 Barbara entered a divorce and was handed a diagnosis with Stage III cancer. During treatment, she vowed that if she beat cancer and got another shot at life, she would live bigger, better, and bolder with true purpose, meaning, and intent.   The three words that best describe Barbara are Purpose, Style, and Adventure.   Connect with Barbara: Website www.themorelifecoll

You will love today’s guest! Lori Barkus of Sustainable Family Solutions sits down with Rhonda to talk about some of the misunderstandings around Mediation. While it can be a great option, you need to be sure you know exactly what the process entails - and what it does not.   Know what mediation is - and what it isn’t What are some key things you should know and do before choosing mediation? Preparation is KEY! About today’s guest:    Lori Barkus is a cum laude graduate of the University of Miami School of Law. She is admitted to practice in Florida, Colorado, Georgia and the District of Columbia. She also is admitted to practice in the Southern and Middle Districts of Florida and the Eleventh Judicial Circuit Court of Appeals.   Ms. Barkus handled primarily family law and commercial litigation matters and has handled hundreds of contested and uncontested divorce matters. Through this experience, and through extensive training as a mediator, a collaborative divorce professional and a guardian ad lit

Rhonda is joined by Attorney Lauren Hunt for a conversation about co-parenting and negotiating the big (and little) things in divorce and beyond.   This episode covers:   Communication is key when co-parenting Is splitting custody 50/50 always the right thing? Treat co-parenting like a business Negotiations and boundaries Navigating the family court system About today’s guest:   Lauren is a divorce attorney who has been in practice for over a decade. Her focus is on giving parents legal information so they can make informed decisions about their next steps. Connect with Lauren:   Website (get your custody case organizer under the resource tab)   Instagram   Facebook   Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CFEI, CDFA®, CEO of The Women’s Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be asserti

Attorney and Mediator, Lesa Koski joins Rhonda for an in-depth conversation around Mediation. Mediation is a great option and can provide a safe place for both parties to be heard and understood. Lisa and Rhonda cover:   What mediation is and what it is not Mediation CAN work, even in difficult circumstances How to find the right Mediator for you Assembling the right team is crucial to the outcome About today’s guest:    Lesa Koski   I am an attorney based in Woodbury, MN with over 20 years of experience and have a strong desire to help people through difficult situations. That's why becoming a divorce mediator was the best fit for both myself and my clients. I am here to help you and I know all about what you’re going through.   In case we’ve never met before, let me tell you a little bit about me...   I help you throughout the process of a divorce through mediation. Together we will create your divorce paperwork or mediated agreement. I love sharing my knowledge and coaching people through the p

Rhonda sits down with author and podcast host, Natalie Hoffman for an fascinating conversation about being a woman of faith facing divorce. They tackle some tough questions, but you’ll leave feeling empowered and encouraged. If you find yourself feeling confused about your marriage and contemplating divorce - pull up a chair and listen in!   What are some common beliefs women of faith have that hold them back from making a divorce decision?   How can they work to reframe those beliefs in a way that enables them to maintain their faith while also empowering them to make that difficult choice to end their marriage?   Many women of faith believe they are giving up on the power of God if they decide to call it quits and get a divorce. How is this actually not the case at all?   What can women of faith do about the feelings of guilt they might experience over ending their marriage?   How can women of faith respond to their faith communities when they are rejected due to divorce?   What are some of the ways you've

Divorce is never easy, but what if you could take steps to help your kids navigate the process?   Rhonda's guest today is Sarah Armstrong, author of The Mom’s Guide to a Good Divorce. They discuss ways to make things easier, especially if you’ve got kids.    Pay attention to small changes that the children will be affected by - kids are observant! Take the high road - easier said than done, but worth it. Set a goal to never pack a bag. Set the intention to delay your emotions   Sarah gives us some amazing real-life examples you won’t want to miss!   Buy Sarah’s book HERE.   About Sarah:   Sarah Armstrong, good divorce proponent and author of The Mom’s Guide to a Good Divorce, is vice-president, global marketing operations, at Google and proud mom of Grace, who graduated from high school in 2021 and is in her sophomore year of college. Sarah is a mentor to other women in business and longtime volunteer at various nonprofit organizations, including the Jack & Jill Late Stage Cancer Foundation, Ge

Rhonda’s guest today is Life Mastery Coach, Donna Tashjian. They discuss ways to move past the pain of divorce to a place of peace and empowerment. We know you will be inspired and encouraged! They cover:  Choose joy - joy is not happiness You can find healing through trauma - forgiveness is not an emotion Look for the gifts - gratitude can change everything   About today’s guest: Donna Tashjian is the founder of Vibrant Living International, a non-profit organization. She is a Life Mastery Coach, an ordained minister, a podcaster, and an author. She helps bring accelerated transformation to people across the world. She empowers you to master life, spirit, soul, and body.  Donna has been speaking and coaching for over 25 years. She has developed powerful programs and workshops to help you through life's transitions and pain to achieve your goals or dreams. She also produces a podcast called “You Were Designed for Greatness” and has written 3 books. Her clients say she has a knack for turning fear into

Don’t miss this episode if you’re contemplating keeping your house in your divorce. Join Rhonda and Jeff Landers for this in depth conversation on keeping the house - is it a good idea? What factors should you consider? Learn what the 6-36 rule is and how it plays a pivotal part in planning for your future.  Gather all of the information. Evaluate your particular situation (things are not black and white!). Get to a place where you can move forward. Do not fall for a false sense of financial security!  Jeff’s new book: Divorce House Sense ........ About today’s guest: Jeff Landers is a seasoned real estate/mortgage and divorce expert with over 40 years of combined experience. Jeff earned his BA degree in psychology from Columbia University and studied law at Pace University School of Law before becoming a divorce financial advisor. He is also a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA™), Certified Divorce Lending Professional (CDLP™) and licensed real estate and mortgage broker. In 2010, Jeff founded

Rhonda and Clinical Therapist, Jennifer Parker discuss a topic we’ve been addressing a lot recently: Coercive Control. Today’s episode covers: Ways to recognize you are being controlled How to get the help and support you need Why isolation is your worst enemy Grab a copy of Jennifer’s book: Coercive Relationships: Find the Answers you Seek   About today’s guest: Jennifer Parker obtained her Masters degree in Social Work at Wisconsin-Madison.She has over 35 years of mental health therapy experience and specials in intimate partner abuse survivors. Jennifer’s work with victims builds resiliency by helping understand who is responsible and address issues that interfere with creating the lives they want.  Jennifer’s book, Coercive Relationships: Find the Answers You Seek, includes knowledge from her training and research, as well as insights she gained from survivors on their healing journeys. Her accomplishments include a curriculum for IPV group work, workshops, professional newsletter articles, exper

  Budgeting. No one wants to talk about it, but it's essential - especially if you're contemplating divorce. Rhonda sits down with Chuck Howard, Assistant Professor at Texas A&M University to discuss the importance of creating a budget and then establishing a routine to continuously track and re-evaluate it.  Listen in as Chuck gives us 5 easy steps to move to successful budgeting:  Set your budget - look at what’s coming in and going out of your bank account. Set aside time to track your spending against the budget. Think about atypical expenses that creep up and make a plan for those. Take in an outside view - ask for help from someone who can give you an objective, broader perspective. Don’t be too hard on yourself! Do you have questions about setting up a budget? Reach out and let us know! We have resources that can help.  Contact us HERE.   About today’s guest:  Ray Charles “Chuck” Howard is an Assistant Professor of Marketing at Texas A&M University. In his research, Chuck asks quest

Rhonda sits down with Dr. Melissa Kalt to discuss practical things to implement when dealing with a narcissist: Examine your motives Be aware of the narcissist’s behavior patterns Give narcissistic supply for the purpose of negotiating Extracting the trauma They delve into each of these steps in a way that will make you feel empowered and encouraged. You won’t want to miss a minute of this one - get ready to take notes! About today’s guest: Dr Melissa, a Trauma Expert and Master Healer helps Soul-driven leaders solve their "unsolvable" problems. She helps brilliant, creative, empaths identify the hidden narcissists impacting their lives, identify the impact they have on their lives, then rise above the trauma and chaos, becoming antifragile. Grab your free Clarity Guide here: narclesslife.com Connect with Dr. Melissa: Website: https://melissakaltmd.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissakaltmd Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissakaltmd/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/DrMelissaKaltM