Divorce Conversations For Women

Marriage and family therapist Gilza Fort Martinez talks with Rhonda about leaning into the uncertainty of separation and divorce. They address how to ground your emotions and begin to dream of possibilities for yourself. Divorce can be an opportunity to rebuild your life when you have the right people by your side.   About today’s guest:   Gilza Fort Martinez is a licensed marriage and family therapist in Miami, Florida. She has worked with women in their families through various life‘s transitions, and has helped women after betrayal to re-create their sense of self.    Gilza also works with couples where there has been betrayal and encourages reconnection between them when possible.   Connect with Gilza:   Website   Facebook   Instagram   LinkedIn Rhonda and Gilza mention speaker and author Mel Robbins - check her out HERE.   Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CFEI, CDFA®, CEO of The Women’s Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how fi

Family Law Attorney, author and speaker Ashley-Nicole Russell is our guest today! Ashley-Nicole and Rhonda do a deep dive on collaborative divorce - what it is, and how it compares to other available options. This is a raw and  honest look into a broken system and why choosing collaboration might be the right answer for you.   If you’re contemplating divorce, do not miss this conversation! About today’s guest:   Ashley-Nicole Russell, Esq. is an award-winning family law attorney, author, and speaker who is changing the way divorce is perceived around the world. She is widely-known as a dedicated, passionate, and trustworthy attorney with integrity. She is committed to protecting her clients while understanding the needs of their families. As a child of divorce and divorcee, she brings a unique, relatable, and personal understanding to AN|R Law Offices and the communities it serves. As the first collaborative law firm in eastern North Carolina, AN|R Law has office locations in Greenville, Raleigh, Beaufort,

Rhonda and Attorney Tina Roddenbery discuss the new trend of “gray divorce” and how divorcing later in life presents unique challenges. They look at 5 key areas to consider as you move through the process. If this is you, listen in and take notes!   About today’s guest:   Tina has focused her practice on all aspects of family and domestic relations law, including divorce, division of assets, custody, alimony, child support, support modification, legitimation, paternity, and contempt since 1987. She has held many leadership positions in the legal profession, including serving as a fellow of the Georgia Chapter of the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers, an exclusive organization of the nation's preeminent family law practitioners, a fellow in the Georgia Chapter of the International Academy of Family Lawyers, a master of the Charles Longstreet Weltner Family Law Inn of Court, past chair of the Family Law Section of the State Bar of Georgia, former Trustee and member of the Executive Committee of the Board

Join Rhonda as she talks with Divorce Coach, Twyla Marks about moving forward after divorce. They discuss 3 key things to help you find confidence, contentment, and joy after the dust settles.    About today’s guest:   Twyla M.Marks is a woman of God who exemplifies the life of an overcomer. She's a Texas native, sports lover, specifically speaking, a Dallas Cowboys lover, and has worked in the healthcare industry for 20+ years. She's a single mother of two adult children. Her daughter is a college graduate of the University of North Texas and her son is entering his junior year at Texas Tech. She is a survivor of a toxic marriage which sadly led to divorce. Her marital roller coaster ride and recovery have positioned her as an expert on helping struggling relationships find resolutions. She's a new author, podcast host, speaker, and creator of the Facebook group Life After Divorce Get Your H-A-P-P-Y back!   Connect with Twyla on her website: https://twylammarks.com/   Be sure to tune into her LIVE show each

You may not be ready for this just yet, but it’s something to consider! Rhonda talks with Dr. Holly Battey about finding the right partner. Learn how to be in touch with your mind, heart and gut when making life decisions and entering new relationships.    Be sure to listen to the very end for Dr. Holly’s special offer! About today’s guest: Dr. Holly Battey   Dr. Holly helps conscious single men and women find the love of their dreams. With a doctorate in clinical psychology, she founded Find Love At Last in 2014 to help sincere clients find lasting love and has been a matchmaker, coach, and image consultant for over 9 years. Dr. Holly is a dating expert and inspiring speaker who empowers and speaks on image, strategy, online dating, partner suitability, communication,and commitment. She is based in San Francisco, California, and works with clients around the world.   Connect with Dr. Battey:   Website:    https://www.findloveatlast.com/ Facebook:    https://www.facebook.com/groups/1178662715802614 Link

Do you have a plan? Rhonda talks with Attorney Ashley Lillesand about the importance of establishing an estate plan - especially if you have minor children. Choosing the right people to handle your affairs is an empowering process and will bring you peace of mind post-divorce. It’s easier than you think!   About our guest:   Attorney Ashley E. Lillesand is the managing partner at Lillesand Law LLC. She focuses her practice on Estate Planning, Estate & Trust Administration, Guardianship and Probate. Prior to attending law school, Ashley worked for a non-profit organization assisting clients through guardianship and making decisions regarding placement, medicaid, end of life, etc. She works directly with each and every client to establish an estate plan that meets the clients' needs and addresses their concerns. She focuses on educating her clients on the options and procedures involved in planning and administration. Ashley is resourceful and tries to ensure that clients do not feel intimidated or overwhel

On today’s episode, Rhonda sits down with Attorney Lindsay Renier to discuss how to prepare for trial. It’s not necessarily what anyone wants, but it’s a possibility, and you need to be prepared. Lindsay shares ways to set yourself up for success during the process. About today’s guest:   Lindsay Renier is the Owner & Attorney with Renier Hotopp Law.   As the owner and operator of Renier Hotopp Law, Lindsay represents women going through divorce or child custody issues. She not only represents her clients as they navigate through challenging legal issues, but she also encourages, emboldens, inspires and strengthens women as they endure one of the most difficult times of their lives. Lindsay operates a Boutique Law Firm and works directly and intimately with each of her clients, encouraging them to fight for what they have a legal right to, and emboldens them to demand what is needed for a brighter future ahead - for themselves and for their children. Lindsay is a fierce litigator and a savvy negotiator.

Rhonda and her guest, Cherie Morris, discuss conflict resolution and practical ways to communicate effectively. Cherie explains the BIFF method and other strategies for communicating so that you can begin to honor yourself in times of stress and conflict.    Grab Cherie’s free download!   https://deardivorcecoach.com/request-transform-conflict-in-your-life/   More about our guest:   Cherie practiced law for many years before transitioning to full-time coaching seven years ago. Her own divorce informed her awareness of a missing link in life transitions, especially separation and divorce. Cherie believes having an objective thinking partner, an expert in communication, and transformational communication, allows her clients to plan for their success to more fully support their children too.    Cherie uses tools from many modalities including referrals to legal, financial, and therapeutic professionals but also helps them implement specific meditation and action-oriented practices to address their wholeness as

Attorney Dennis Vetrano talks with Rhonda about ways you can build your team and set yourself up for financial success. They discuss pre and post nups, the importance of setting up a budget, and ways to prepare yourself for a healthy financial future separate from your spouse. You don’t want to miss any of this conversation!   --   Today’s guest is Dennis Vetrano, Jr., Attorney and Owner of the Law Office of Dennis Vetrano, Jr. LLC in Dutchess County, NY.    Vetrano graduated from SUNY Albany with a BachelorsDegree, Major: Political Science, Minor: Economics. Shortly after passing the bar in 1999, Mr. Vetrano accepted a job with The Law Office of Alice K. Berke, a small but aggressive general practice litigation firm in the City of Albany. For the next three years, Mr. Vetrano was able to really hone his skills as a young lawyer, handling everything from complex estate/probate litigation cases in Manhattan to federal criminal defense cases in Federal District Court to contested divorce/family law litigation c

Rhonda talks with Podcast Host and Coach, Kate Anthony about how women can take care of themselves as they contemplate divorce. Kate tackles the difficult question: Should I stay, or should I go?   About our guest, Kate Anthony:   Kate Anthony is the host of the critically acclaimed and New York Times recommended podcast The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast and the creator of the groundbreaking online coaching program, Should I Stay or Should I Go? which helps women make the most difficult decision of their lives using coaching tools, relationship education, geeky neuroscience, community support, and deep self-work. Kate empowers women to find their strength, passion, and confidence even in the most disempowering of circumstances and helps them move forward with concrete plans set on a solid foundation, putting their children at the center (not in the middle) of all their decisions. In addition to her online programs, Kate works privately with clients all over the world. Kate lives in Los Angeles with her teena

Claire and Rhonda talk about rituals and how they help you move forward during any kind of transition. Tune in for their discussion of the 5 stages of ritual and how that can help you navigate through change. This episode gives practical tips that you can begin to implement into your life today!   About our guest:   Claire Jones is a Change Guide that supports conscious visionaries who are navigating transitional spaces in their personal or professional lives.    Through bespoke rituals of intention, she guides people through transitioning into something, out of something, or looking for something new.    Connect with Claire:   Company Website  www.liminalclarity.com    Facebook  facebook.com/liminalclarity    LinkedIn  linkedin.com/in/claireejones    Instagram  instagram.com/liminalclarity    YouTube  youtube.com/channel/UCxnup793zBiHtV6eXsuod5w  _____________________________________   Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CFEI, CDFA®, CEO of The Women’s Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to

Our guest today is Tina Swithin, Author and Family Court Advocate. Tina founded One Mom’s Battle after navigating a high-conflict divorce in the California Family Court System. Rhonda and Tina discuss the importance of documentation, preparation, and strategy to take on these difficult domestic abuse cases. Grab a pen - you’ll want to take notes! Connect with Tina:   Company Website - www.onemomsbattle.com    Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/onemomsbattle    LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/tinaswithin/    Twitter - @onemomsbattle    Instagram - @onemomsbattle    YouTube -https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCI4AhUPJiUSU_wqtSqRoaOw About Tina:   In 2009, One Mom’s Battle (OMB) began with one mother, Tina Swithin, navigating a high-conflict divorce in the California Family Court System while in pro per. When Tina named her blog, “One Mom’s Battle,” she truly felt alone and isolated in her journey. After going public with her story in 2011, Tina quickly realized that she was not alone, and that narciss

Our guest today is Brian Victor, Attorney, JD, and LMFT. Brian is a family law attorney in San Diego, California focusing on the mediation of divorce, child custody, and parent plans. Brian has experience as a Family Court Counselor and brings us a unique perspective on the divorce process. He and Rhonda discuss mediation options and the importance of a good parenting plan.    Connect with Brian: The Law Offices of Brian A. Victor https://brianvictorlaw.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lawofficesbrianavictor/ Instagram: @Brianav7 Twitter: @brianvictorlaw   More about our guest, Brian Victor: Prior to running his own practice, Brian worked 11 ½ years as a Family Court Counselor at the San Diego Superior Court Family Court Services. Brian has been named one of the best divorce lawyers in San Diego between 2016 and 2021. He was named a Super Lawyers Rising Star from 2015 to 2020. _____________________________ Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CFEI, CDFA®, CEO of The Women’s Financial Wellness Center Rhonda has

In this episode, Rhonda welcomes Amanda Singer. Amanda is Co-Owner of West Coast Family Mediation Center. She is a Licensed Attorney, Certified Mediator, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst. Amanda’s key area of practice is mediation.  According to Amanda, mediation is not going to work in all situations, but it does in a lot more than people realize. Some couples might agree on everything and they just might need more help with getting things done correctly. And there are those that agree on nothing. At least they have to both agree on mediation. Communication is not easy. Make sure you utilize the mediator’s expertise to help you through this process, especially if you have kids.  Here are some of Amanda’s recommendations about mediation and communication during the divorce process: Mediation is a voluntary process and both partners have to be willing to participate, compromise, and communicate.   Once you’re already in mediation, share your concerns with the mediator. Think about how you’re communicat

In this episode, Rhonda welcomes Gregg Murset, the CEO of BusyKid, which is the ultimate debit card and app that helps teach kids how to manage their own money. Gregg is a Certified Financial Planner and consultant who has become a great advocate for sound parenting. In this episode, Gregg shares the importance of teaching your kids the value of money and managing it. He gives us some good tips on how you could help your kids have a better future by teaching them about the financial aspects of life.  According to Gregg, it’s important to know the balanced financial approach to financial management which is what our kids need to learn. Who is a better teacher than you, right? His message for you today is: Teach you kids while they’re young.  Here are some of his tips: A balanced financial approach includes saving, sharing and spending. You need to teach your kids what these three things are and what they do to help us manage our money. It’s the reality of life and they should know this while they’re young. Pr

In today’s episode, Rhonda is joined by Bridget Potterton. Bridget is a Certified Divorce Real Estate Expert in the state of California. Today they discuss the things you should be considering before selling your home during your divorce. Selling your home could be a tough decision due to various reasons such as emotional attachment, but you must consider everything when making this big decision in your life.  Bridget reminds today’s listeners to be careful and consider everything in making your decision.   Here are some of the key points to the discussion that make this a worthy listen: The key is to take a deep breath and really think through the strategy before you make a decision of whether or not to either buy out a spouse, if that's possible, or whether you need to sell the home. Take a look at the numbers, options and data to make a good decision, not leaving the emotional part at the door but also not forgetting that there is some logic that goes along with the decision making as well.  Hire the righ

In today's episode, I sat down with David Iancu of Karp & Iancu, S.C. law firm in the state of Wisconsin, to debunk some of the myths surrounding divorce.  Disclaimer! The discussion that we had pertains specifically to the laws on divorce in the State of Wisconsin. What we discussed may not apply to you as each state has its own laws pertaining to this matter.  Nevertheless, I am encouraging you to listen to our discussion because there might be things that you didn't initially consider that could be touched upon here.    Right off the bat, David Iancu gives his most important advice to people considering divorce and it is this: Get as much intel or information as you can!  He notes that people often lack knowledge about the divorce process. Thus, he encourages you to look out for information to gain clarity about your situation.  Listen to this episode to learn the truth about myths in divorce.   Here are some of the myths that spouses believe:  Myth 1 - "We get to keep what we had before we got married

For today’s episode, Rhonda is joined by Nicole Cheri Oden. Nicole is an attorney licensed in the State of California for almost 10 years with her own virtual law practice. Today they will discuss the various options when going through a divorce. Litigation divorce isn't the only way and being aware of these options can help families minimize the emotional stress and costs during a difficult time. Taking a step back to review the emotional climate between the two parties can eventually help smoothen the journey through divorce.  Nicole sternly reminds today’s listeners that divorces don't necessarily need to be amicable to be successful but to be respectful. Here are some key points to the discussion that makes this a worthy listen: There is more than one way to get a divorce. Listen now to know what to consider when choosing between mediation, collaborative process, cooperative process, and limited scope representation.  Divorce is not free - It will cost time and money so choose wisely on how you spend it.

In this episode, Rhonda welcomes Ariel Kopac, the founder and owner of Harness Your Hindrance. They talk about money and the mindsets that keep us stuck. We all experience fears around money, and that fear is heightened when there is a significant life change, especially divorce. Knowing that you can call out the fear, face it, and not be manipulated by it, you embrace the power you have. We can be manipulated by fear, or we can manipulate our fear. The choice is ours. Women going through divorce need to know that they have the power to choose. Ariel’s message to you today is: Whatever you decide, know that your greatest limitations are always those that you place upon yourself.  Listen to this episode and learn about some of the strategies that may impact your mindset around money.  Here are some of them: Whenever you focus on what you do not want, you are keeping your focus there instead of on what you do want.  Our associations are powerful and can be helpful or hurtful. Reframe money as a tool that you u

In this episode, Rhonda welcomes Elizabeth Kay, the Morning Show host on 99.1 The Mix and podcast host of “50 Shades of Kay”. Elizabeth talks about her divorce process, the things she did, and the things she wished she did differently. She also talks about her life after divorce. According to her, you are going to have tough days, even after the divorce, because you need the time to mourn your relationship. Elizabeth also shares about her life in a blended family and gives some excellent co-parenting tips. She highly recommends the book The Happy Stepmother by Rachelle Katz, which is very helpful and easy to read.     Elizabeth’s message to the women going through the divorce is: Put your needs first and do not apologize for it, even if there are kids involved in the divorce. If you do not take care of yourself, and put your oxygen mask on first, you are going to suffer the consequences of that down the road, and ultimately, so will your children.  Here are some of her recommendations: You are in the stage o